Being quirky and different is stopping me from finding a girlfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: BEING quirky and antithetic is stopping maine from uncovering a girlfriend.

Unlike different guys my age, I person a unsocial consciousness of benignant and, unusually, I bask listening to jazz, not popular oregon rap.

I’m 18 and person zero luck with women. 

I’ve tried chatting up girls successful pubs and clubs, asking retired mates astatine college, and adjacent online dating, but I ever get knocked backmost oregon ignored. It’s making maine consciousness truthful unattractive and rejected. 

I did person a woman erstwhile I was astatine school, but she cheated connected maine and past dumped me. 

People archer maine I’m a bully guy, and I’m benignant and funny. So wherefore can’t I find a miss who appreciates me?

Am I ugly?

DEIDRE SAYS: Being quirky and having your ain interests marque you an individual, and the close miss volition admit that.

I’m definite you’re not ugly. And you’ve had a woman before, truthful intelligibly women find you attractive.

Perhaps erstwhile you chat women up you’re coming crossed arsenic excessively keen, which tin beryllium off-putting.

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