Dream man I met at supermarket cruelly said he only went to bed with me ‘to relieve the tension’

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER I had enactment with my imagination man, helium dismissed immoderate accidental of a narration and cruelly said helium lone went to furniture with maine “to relieve the tension”.

He says helium sees america arsenic friends, which has near maine feeling worthless.

I americium 23, helium is 24 and we met erstwhile helium began moving astatine the aforesaid supermarket arsenic me.

My brag asked maine to amusement him astir and we got connected brilliantly. There was a existent spark betwixt us.

At the extremity of his archetypal week helium kissed maine and asked maine retired for a drink, but past helium cancelled connected maine a mates of times.

I haven’t had overmuch luck with men and person been connected my ain for a while.

I was opening to deliberation helium was similar each the different men I’ve dated but past helium really showed up.

After 1 portion we went backmost to his level for a takeaway and a movie — and we besides had sex. It was the champion I person ever had.

I told him however overmuch I liked him but that is erstwhile helium told maine helium lone saw maine arsenic a person to person enactment with. He added that helium wasn’t definite if a narration with maine would work.

I was gutted but didn’t privation to suffer him truthful I agreed to being enactment buddies. I person been successful akin arrangements earlier but person ne'er fallen truthful hard for the man.

This feline is conscionable perfect.

So erstwhile helium moved jobs and avoided maine for a month, I was heartbroken.

When helium yet called, I told him I felt similar I wasn’t bully capable for him, but helium disagreed.

He past suggested we conscionable up again arsenic enactment buddies. I’ve said yes but my bosom isn’t successful it.

He is truthful peculiar to me. Am I conscionable wasting my time?

DEIDRE SAYS: It would look so. No antheral is cleanable – it’s lone your imaginativeness of however helium could be.

Please halt putting him connected a pedestal – it’s truthful acold from reality. Take a look astatine however helium has treated you and what helium has said helium wants.

That is what helium is truly like, not the idealised mentation successful your mind.

The longer you proceed having enactment with him, the deeper the coiled volition be.

He has been honorable astir what he’s looking for, present it’s clip for you to beryllium honorable with yourself also.

Tell him that being truthful casual isn’t your country aft all. And unless helium changes his attack quickly, you request to extremity this and determination on.