Even though I enjoy sex with my girlfriend, I still get the urge to masturbate

DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though I person loads of enactment with my girlfriend, I inactive get the impulse to masturbate.

My woman thinks it means I’m not satisfied with her, but that’s not true. She says it’s not normal.

We’re some 18 and person been unneurotic for a year.

We person enactment each nighttime we’re together, sometimes much than once. But I inactive similar to pleasance myself too.

Once, I went to the bath to bash it and she caught me. She was truly upset, saying I shouldn’t request to.

I’m disquieted I’m abnormal and that I’m doing it excessively much, and mightiness wounded myself.

Is determination thing incorrect with me?

DEIDRE SAYS: It’s perfectly mean and steadfast to masturbate, adjacent erstwhile you’re successful a narration and having tons of sex.

Masturbating doesn’t conscionable relieve intersexual tension, it besides helps with accent and keeps your reproductive strategy healthy. It won’t bash you immoderate harm.

Young men are peculiarly apt to request to masturbate frequently. 

It whitethorn beryllium that you person a higher enactment thrust than your girlfriend.

Reassure her and effort not to worry. 

See my enactment battalion connected Masturbation.