Heartbreaking emails mum sent Santa Sabina College before daughter Charlotte O'Brien took her own life after being bullied

The parent of a 12-year-old miss who took her ain beingness has shared emails she says beryllium she 'begged' the schoolhouse to enactment implicit the terrible bullying against her daughter.

Charlotte O'Brien, a Year 7 pupil astatine Santa Sabina College astatine Strathfield successful Sydney's inner-west, took her ain beingness earlier this month.

Daily Mail Australia revealed connected Wednesday that Charlotte had learned of her biological father's convulsive transgression past. 

She told chap students astir what helium had done, which parent Kelly O'Brien said prompted changeless bullying.

Messages seen by Daily Mail Australia amusement the household and the schoolhouse successful speech astir Charlotte's claims she was being bullied implicit her disclosure.

In exchanges dated August 2022, Ms O'Brien wrote to Santa Sabina saying she is 'so disquieted astir Charlotte being bullied due to the fact that of the accusation that travel to light'.

Ms O'Brien wrote she would 'hate to uproot Charlotte and commencement her astatine a caller schoolhouse again' but 'the ramifications bullying has connected intelligence wellness are conscionable excessively severe'.

The schoolhouse responded: 'At Santa, we instrumentality bullying highly seriously. Please beryllium assured we volition bash everything to enactment Charlotte and you.'

It besides said counselling was being arranged for Charlotte.

Ms O'Brien besides wrote to  Charlotte's teacher and stated she was 'overwhelmed with the support' they had provided to the girl.

'We volition proceed to support an oculus connected her and enactment Charlotte successful immoderate mode we can,' the teacher replied. 

In November 2022, Ms O'Brien wrote to the schoolhouse to explicit caller concerns with Charlotte.

'She (Charlotte) has present sent maine an email with aggregate crying faces and said she's having a hard clip with the girls,' Ms O'Brien wrote.

As precocious arsenic August 2024, Charlotte's parent informed Santa Sabina that Charlotte was excessively upset to be school.

'Unfortunately Charlotte volition not beryllium successful today. She has been coming location successful tears the past fewer weeks implicit relationship issues.

'This greeting Charlotte is precise distressed. So she volition enactment to cod herself.'

Then connected September 10, Charlotte's parent revealed the tragic quality that her girl had taken her ain life. 

'My beauteous miss took her ain beingness due to the fact that of the relentless relationship issues she faced,' she wrote.

'I was frightened to statement it bullying but that's precisely what it was.'

'I'd begged the schoolhouse to intervene … I privation I had been stronger and demanded it beryllium fixed!' she wrote.

On Monday, Charlotte's household spoke retired successful a connection issued to 2GB meal big Ben Fordham, demanding that the bullying they assertion drove their girl into helpless despair implicit a two-year play not beryllium 'swept nether the carpet'.

The school's effect connected Monday was the family's allegations 'were caller and inconsistent with their records'.

'She wrote a goodbye enactment specifically mentioning the bullying she received astatine the school,' Charlotte's parent said.

'She said beingness was excessively hard for her to continue.

'When the astir caller lawsuit of bullying was raised, the schoolhouse simply said it was investigated and the girls denied it. That's it. Case closed. Move on.

'Well my beauteous daughter's beingness won't determination connected and I'll ne'er get to accidental goodbye.

'These issues cannot beryllium swept nether the carpet. I volition not fto my daughter's representation beryllium swept nether the carpet either.

'How galore much children request to suffer their lives earlier they get it? How galore parents request to consciousness the symptom of ne'er being capable to prime up their kid from schoolhouse again earlier they get it?

'We're breached forever.' 

Experts accidental termination is analyzable and tin lone seldom beryllium attributed to 1 origin alone. 

The highest hazard factors for younker termination are believed to beryllium a intelligence wellness information oregon a carnal disability, but bullying, household problems and grief are besides considered hazard factors. 

Santa Sabina College has been contacted for comment. 

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