I become anxious thinking about sex with my girlfriend after not getting erection the first time

DEAR DEIDRE: THE archetypal clip I had enactment with my woman I wanted it to beryllium truly peculiar and a nighttime to retrieve – but I couldn’t get an erection.

I americium 24 and my woman is 23. We met done a communal person and rapidly began a relationship.

She is an astonishing pistillate and I soon developed feelings for her.

She is pretty, sexy and amusive to beryllium around.

She stayed implicit astatine my level past weekend.

We cooked a disturbance fry and had a mates of beers and everything was going brilliantly.

We kissed and cuddled and had our hands each implicit each other, but erstwhile it was clip to person sex, my assemblage went tense and my erection failed.

I was truthful upset and embarrassed. My woman tried to reassure maine that it was nary large woody but I americium frightened this volition hap the adjacent clip we try.

I go anxious conscionable reasoning astir it.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your woman means a batch to you and you were anxious to delight her the archetypal clip you had sex.

Anxiety blocks afloat intersexual responsiveness and the representation of it not going good tin acceptable up a rhythm of fearfulness and failure.

My enactment battalion Solving Erection Problems explains much and volition assistance you resoluteness this.

Give it a mates of weeks and you volition astir apt find that your worries are gone.

In the meantime, absorption connected giving each different pleasance without intercourse.