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- Sally Land
- The Sun's Agony Aunt
- Published: 17:35, 31 Jan 2025
DEAR DEIDRE: AN ex-girlfriend told maine my penis was truthful tiny she needed a magnifying solid to find it.
Her hurtful words person stayed with me, and present I’m struggling with my assurance successful bed.
I’m a 27-year-old azygous guy.
I was with my ex, 25, for a year. She ever made maine consciousness I wasn’t bully capable for her.
Our enactment beingness was problematic, and the much I disquieted I wasn't satisfying her, the worse it got. Sometimes, I struggled to get an erection.
We argued a batch and she was often mean - putting maine down and insulting my appearance, similar saying I needed to enactment retired more.
But erstwhile she mocked the size of my penis, it chopped deep.
We divided a fewer months ago. Since then, I’ve been connected dating sites, past chickened retired of arranging dates.
I person nary occupation attracting women - radical accidental I’m good-looking and a bully feline - but I’m anxious astir having different relationship.
My ex’s words support ringing successful my ears and I’m disquieted a caller woman volition laughter astatine my penis oregon that I won’t beryllium capable to perform.
I consciousness truthful insecure and don’t cognize however to flooded this.
DEIDRE SAYS: Being teased astir your intersexual prowess tin person a lasting interaction connected confidence.
However, being a bully person has small to bash with the size of your penis - which I would wager is perfectly normal.
Your cruel ex simply picked connected the happening astir apt to wounded a man.
Good enactment is astir bully communication, listening and being considerate.
And astir women scope orgasm done stimulation of the clitoris - manually oregon orally - alternatively than done intercourse alone.
Read my enactment packs, Penis Size and Raising Self-Esteem for much support.
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