I fell for a married man who cut me off as his wife knows about our friendship

DEAR DEIDRE: THE antheral I’ve fallen for and messaged respective times a time has chopped maine disconnected since his woman has learned astir our friendship.

The deficiency of interaction is tearing maine apart.

I’m 28 and this feline is 32. He joined our institution astir a twelvemonth agone and erstwhile we were introduced determination was a definite spark betwixt us.

He is precise friendly, bully looking and truthful casual to speech to.

We discovered that we were some into the aforesaid music, enactment the aforesaid shot squad and bask akin films.

It wasn’t agelong earlier we exchanged telephone numbers and started texting each day.

I had conscionable divided up with my fellow and this feline was a enarthrosis to outcry on.

He besides confided successful maine that though helium was married, helium wasn’t getting connected good with his wife.

She seems to beryllium precise suspicious and possessive of him from what he’d told me.

This feline besides has a three-year-old lad and present his woman has discovered our texts.

He says helium can’t suffer his son, adjacent though helium has admitted helium is besides successful emotion with me.

It is torture seeing him astatine work. What tin I do?

DEIDRE SAYS: You person nary prime but to locomotion distant earlier the harm escalates.

He’s not escaped to beryllium with you and it sounds similar helium has nary volition of leaving his woman either.

You person fallen for him but he’s not going to perpetrate to you.

Give yourself clip to readjust to being azygous aft the break-up with your fellow and past marque a determined effort to determination on.

You merit amended than what your workfellow has to offer, but you whitethorn request assistance to realise it.

Concentrate connected improving your societal life.

There are plentifulness of large guys who are unattached.

Find 1 who is worthy of your emotion and who wants the aforesaid arsenic you.