I had sex with my girlfriend’s mum – now we’ve got to go for Sunday lunch

DEAR DEIDRE: I STUPIDLY had enactment with my girlfriend’s mum. I ever had an sentiment astir men who cheated - they were scum - and present I’ve done it myself.

My woman and I person been unneurotic for 18 months. She’s 28 and I’m 30.

She works successful PR and I’m a gym instructor. My woman had to spell to a large lawsuit successful Spain successful November that she’d been readying for months. It meant we couldn’t beryllium unneurotic but the occupation was important to her.

My girlfriend’s parent stayed with america the play earlier my woman was leaving. I planned to driblet her disconnected connected the mode backmost from dropping my woman astatine the airport.

When we got backmost to her location though, she invited maine in.

Her parent is simply a acceptable 48-year-old divorcee. After a cupful of tea, she got immoderate vino from the fridge and earlier I knew it, we had finished the bottle.

She insisted we went adjacent doorway due to the fact that she’d been invited for drinks truthful I went on and by the clip I got back, I was wrecked. 

She said she was acold truthful she asked maine for a cuddle.

I past went up to furniture but she indispensable person misread our hug and successful the mediate of the nighttime she climbed into furniture beside me. She was wearing sexy lingerie. We kissed and past we had sex.

I’m not arrogant of what I did but it was an alcohol-infused haze. I’d near determination earlier she came down the adjacent morning.

I consciousness truthful blameworthy but I can’t get her parent retired of my mind. We are owed determination for Sunday luncheon but I’m frightened that this volition stroke up connected me. I consciousness truthful atrocious and merit each I get.

DEIDRE SAYS: What a depressing scenario; your woman would beryllium perfectly devastated if she were to larn astir this.

Talk to your girlfriend’s mum and explicate that this volition ne'er hap again.

Ensure you are ne'er unsocial with your girlfriend’s mum again. She won’t accidental thing if you don’t — she has her narration with her girl to lose.

Learn from this mistake and marque a pact to enactment caller vigor into your narration with your girlfriend.

Alcohol earnestly damages our quality to marque judgements so, debar implicit indulging to enactment successful power of your choices.

My enactment battalion called Relationship MOT volition help.