Tulisa Contostavlos opened up astir her sexuality during an occurrence of I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here!
The ITV bid is good underway with stars rapidly getting to cognize each other amended portion surviving successful the Australian jungle.
While sat astir the campfire successful past night’s episode, speech turned to romanticist relationships.
In a treatment astir dating apps with chap singletons Alan Halsall and Dean McCullough, Tulisa, 36, revealed that the lone 1 you’ll find her connected is Raya.
The highly-exclusive app vets each member, who has to beryllium referred by astatine slightest 2 users. Despite the pugnacious criteria to get connected Raya, which is often favoured by celebrities, the N-Dubz vocalist hasn’t been precise active.
‘I’m not truly a dater, adjacent though I’ve been connected there, I’ve ne'er gone connected an existent day with anyone connected there… I’m due guarded,’ she shared.
As the chat progressed, Tulisa explained that she is demi-sexual.
‘I consciousness similar I’m demi-sexual, I request to person a truly adjacent affectional enslaved with someone,’ she stated. ‘I request existent depth.’
What is demisexuality?
Demisexuality is erstwhile a idiosyncratic experiences intersexual feelings and attraction lone aft processing a adjacent affectional narration and not connected the ground of archetypal impressions oregon carnal characteristics.
This tin use to anyone careless of their gender identity or sexual orientation.
Tulisa past revealed: ‘I’m a slow, dilatory burner, I’ve been celibate for implicit 3 years.’ Celibacy means to abstain from intersexual intercourse and marriage.
As Dean quizzed her connected what it’s similar being celibate, Tulisa responded: ‘I’m not an overly sexualised person. For me, it’s each astir the transportation and the emotions that I consciousness with idiosyncratic and past wanting to explicit them successful that way.’
Explaining the thought of going retired and gathering idiosyncratic to slumber with ‘genuinely makes maine consciousness physically sick’ she joked: ‘This is my temple, you cannot enter!’
As the campmates laugh, Alan joked: ‘It sounds similar a Bushtucker Trial wherever you’ve gotta find a cardinal to Tulisa’s temple!’
After the humurous exchange, Tulisa’s person Michelle McKenna appeared connected Lorraine. When the big suggested that determination could beryllium imaginable betwixt Tulisa and Alan,42, she teased: ‘You ne'er know!’
As Tulisa continues her travel down under, let’s instrumentality a look backmost astatine who she has dated…
Fazer
Mixing enactment and pleasure, Fazer and Tulisa were romantically progressive portion gathering their vocation arsenic N-Dubz, leaving her relative Dappy arsenic the eventual 3rd wheel.
The brace dated connected and disconnected passim their teenage years and arsenic their set recovered success. Although they mostly kept their narration private, Tulisa did archer The Mirror successful 2011: ‘I’m truly blessed and person the champion boyfriend- he’s truly supportive successful what I’m doing.
‘He’s my stone – he’s been determination for maine passim the past fewer months. I couldn’t beryllium doing what I’m doing without him.’
However, 1 twelvemonth later, Tulisa, and Fazer, existent sanction Richard Rawson, ended their relationship. After their breakup, the brace were capable to stay connected bully terms, and person continued moving unneurotic including connected N-Dubz’s comeback successful 2022.
Justin Edwards
Former fellow Justin Edwards caused her symptom aft a video of them being intimate was shared online. Although they divided successful 2010, the video surfaced successful 2012.
The rap artist, professionally known arsenic MC Ultra, initially denied responsibility, but yet apologised astatine London’s High Court.
‘It deed maine similar a train. I couldn’t halt crying. It was similar my full satellite was ending,’ the erstwhile X Factor justice recalled of the clip successful her autobiography Honest, My Story So Far.
‘I would effort to enactment the full happening retired of my caput but it would creep backmost – it was beauteous overmuch all-consuming.’
Speaking precocious connected the So Right It’s Wrong podcast, she said: ‘It was similar a signifier of virtual rape. The shame, the judgment—it was unbearable.’
Jack O’Connell
Skins histrion Jack O’Connell provided comfortableness for Tulisa during the hard clip and they dated for 3 months.
‘As soon arsenic I saw him, everything started to consciousness better, easier. For the adjacent 3 weeks helium ne'er near my side. And arsenic clip went connected I started to consciousness stronger,’ she said.
It was alleged that ‘incompatible enactment schedules’ was the crushed for the split. Tulisa wrote connected X: ‘4 the grounds I didn’t dump any1, it was a communal determination with nary hard feelings n that’s each determination is 2 it.’
Tulisa is past said to person started spending clip with US euphony producer The Dream – existent sanction Terius Youngdell Nash. A root was quoted by The Sun arsenic saying: ‘They’ve been hooking up much and much and tongues person been wagging. He’s been telling his pals each astir Tulisa and however talented she is.’
Jody Latham
Shameless histrion Jody Latham starred successful the euphony video for Tulisa’s azygous Sight of You successful 2012. The TV prima played a cheating boyfriend, who Tulisa’s quality struggled to forgive.
It’s reported they past began dating but this isn’t thing either enactment confirmed.
She was besides linked to Mark Wright astir this time, which she denied, with a tweet: ‘I person sumthin 2 accidental 2day. 1.people marque maine sick the things they bash 4 cash,disgustin. 2.why americium I meant 2 b bangin each feline Im seen with? 3.I person DEFFINITELY NOT shagged people wright and I tin curse that connected my uncle B’s GRAVE!’
Danny Simpson
In 2013, Tulisa dated premier league shot subordinate Danny Simpson for 8 months.
Tulisa claimed that putting a brace of £1,000 Christian Louboutin shoes into a Tesco bearer bag, made him furious and the enactment yet ended their relationship.
‘He was a fan. He was obsessed for six years. He had a monolithic crush connected me. Finally helium recovered idiosyncratic who knew me,’ she scathed astatine the clip to The Sun.
‘He wasn’t a personage until helium met me. He was a celebrated footballer but not a celebrity. As soon arsenic helium got with me, helium became a personage footballer.’
Further twisting the knife, Tulisa claimed helium was fake, adding: ‘He’s not arsenic intelligent arsenic me. And he’s precise shallow and I’m precise real.’
Costas Panayiotou
In the summertime of 2014, Tulisa is said to person enjoyed a romance with Costas Panayiotou, the lad of spot tycoon, Andreas Panayiotou.
A root told The Mirror at the time: ‘They truly deed it off. They person a batch successful communal and stock respective friends and interests, arsenic good arsenic a Greek-Cypriot background.
‘Costas is simply a spot younger but that doesn’t look to matter. It’s exciting. They’ve had a large time.’
By autumn, Tulisa said: ‘I was seeing idiosyncratic but we’re not unneurotic now.
‘I’m not looking for love. Right present I’m not reasoning to the future, I’m conscionable joined to the music.
‘I bash sometimes get a batch of attraction from guys but I’m conscionable enjoying doing my ain thing. I’m 26 and I’m loving life.’
David King
In 2017, it was reported that Tulisa was dating Cher’s nephew David King. The euphony shaper and Tulisa were moving unneurotic successful the workplace erstwhile they are said to person grown close.
At the clip an insider told the Mail Online: ‘They’ve been spending a batch of clip unneurotic and are some presently staying astatine Cher’s Malibu home.
‘Things are going truly well.’
They added that Tulisa was ‘very happy’. It is not known erstwhile the transportation fizzled.
I’m A Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here! continues contiguous astatine 9pm connected ITV1.
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