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- Sally Land
- The Sun's Agony Aunt
- Published: 17:35, 19 Nov 2024
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER having immoderate clip disconnected enactment erstwhile I was struggling with my intelligence wellness and cause addiction, I americium excited but tense astir returning.
I’m a 43-year-old woman. I’m frightened to locomotion into the bureau arsenic cipher knows what I was going through.
I’ve gained a sizeable magnitude of value since being off. I was truthful unwell I couldn’t locomotion anyplace due to the fact that my addiction caused maine carnal pain.
I couldn’t beryllium acold distant from the toilet due to the fact that my bladder was truthful atrocious from years of cause abuse.
I person stopped present and my bladder is feeling truthful overmuch better. I americium sleeping amended too.
When I commencement walking to enactment eating steadfast snacks and a balanced dinner, I cognize the value volition dilatory travel off.
However, I’m acrophobic that erstwhile I spell to the bureau idiosyncratic volition marque a remark astir however antithetic I look oregon inquire what has happened.
I person bought immoderate caller enactment outfits that volition acceptable maine decently but I interest that 1 antagonistic remark volition nonstop maine spiralling and undo each the hard enactment I’ve done connected myself.
I don’t deliberation I’m being paranoid.
DEIDRE SAYS: You are to beryllium congratulated for moving hard to get disconnected the drugs.
Overcoming addiction isn’t easy. You should beryllium arrogant of yourself.
If a workfellow makes a remark you could simply accidental that you are not funny successful discussing it with them, excuse yourself and locomotion away. They volition soon get the connection that it’s not OK.
My enactment battalion connected Standing Up For Yourself volition assistance you.
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