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- Sally Land
- The Sun's Agony Aunt
- Published: 17:25, 15 Nov 2024
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M paranoid that my woman is ashamed to beryllium seen with me.
It feels similar she doesn’t deliberation I’m bully capable for her, and it truly hurts.
I’m 18 and she’s 17. We’ve been unneurotic for six months.
She shares loads of photos of herself with her friends connected societal media, but she’s ne'er shared a azygous 1 of maine - adjacent though we’ve taken many.
She doesn’t adjacent privation maine to conscionable her parents. She’s ever making excuses and saying ‘soon’, but it ne'er happens.
It’s making maine insecure. Perhaps I’m excessively disfigured oregon person a unspeakable personality.
She’s beauteous erstwhile we’re unsocial together.
What should I do?
DEIDRE SAYS: Feeling similar someone’s soiled small concealed is horrible and truly knocks your confidence.
But your woman mightiness not consciousness ashamed of you. Perhaps she isn’t expected to person a fellow and volition get into occupation if her parents find out.
The lone mode to benignant this retired is to archer her however you consciousness and inquire her to beryllium honest.
My enactment pack, Standing Up For Yourself, should assistance you to person this conversation.
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