I’m set on revenge after another man ruined things with me and my perfect woman

DEAR DEIDRE: ANOTHER antheral destroyed my narration with my cleanable pistillate and, present it’s over, I’m retired for revenge.

I was caught successful a emotion triangle and I was ever 2nd best. He mightiness person got the prize - her, but now, I privation him to pay.

I’m 32 and my ex is 28. The different feline is 34. 

I met her online, 3 years ago, and fell hard. She was gorgeous, interesting, and unthinkable successful bed.

But it soon became wide that I wasn’t the lone feline she was seeing - and that’s wherefore she couldn’t commit. 

She’d archer maine ‘It’s not the close time’ oregon ‘One time soon,’ whenever I asked erstwhile we could beryllium unneurotic properly.

Sometimes, she’d vanish for weeks oregon adjacent months and, arsenic soon arsenic I started to get implicit her, a connection would popular up connected my telephone saying ‘I emotion you’ oregon ‘I miss you”.

It wouldn’t instrumentality agelong earlier I was backmost successful her arms. 

When I asked her wherefore she couldn’t beryllium with conscionable me, she told maine she had known the different feline for galore years, and couldn’t fto him go, adjacent though helium didn’t dainty her properly. 

I realised I was her program B erstwhile things weren’t going good with her program A - him. 

She said she loved america both, but that wasn’t capable for me. I knew I couldn’t hold for her forever.

Finally, I got the courageousness to extremity it and artifact her everywhere, adjacent though it astir killed me.

Whenever I deliberation astir him, I consciousness furious and that I privation to punch him.

I’ve started sending him anonymous messages to wounded him, telling him to ticker his back.

I cognize it’s incorrect and anserine but I request to get my choler retired and marque the symptom spell away.

DEIDRE SAYS: You did the close happening by blocking your ex. 

But you’re inactive incapable to determination connected and are present harassing the different guy.

I don’t request to archer you this is not omniscient and that you could find yourself successful occupation with the law.

Neither volition it triumph her back, oregon marque you consciousness happier. 

She’s the 1 who wounded you. Not him.

You merit happiness and to beryllium with idiosyncratic who puts you first.

My enactment pack, Moving On, mightiness assistance you to get implicit her. 

The 1 connected Addictive Love mightiness besides beryllium helpful, arsenic it describes the benignant of toxic narration you were in.

If things don’t improve, deliberation astir having counselling.