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- Sally Land
- The Sun's Agony Aunt
- Published: 17:35, 22 Nov 2024
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD enactment with a pistillate I met successful a nightclub and present I’m disquieted I mightiness person caught thing from her.
Although we utilized condoms, she besides gave maine oral enactment without immoderate protection. Can you drawback a sexually-transmitted corruption from oral sex?
I’m 26 and the pistillate was astir the aforesaid age. I’m embarrassed to say, I don’t cognize her sanction oregon age, arsenic she didn’t archer me.
We ended up up unneurotic successful the toilets, wherever she went down connected maine successful a cubicle. Then we went outside, and recovered ourselves successful an alleyway, circular the backmost of the club.
We had enactment there. Fortunately, I had a condom successful my pouch and remembered to enactment it on.
I wasn’t worried, until I recovered retired this pistillate has a estimation for sleeping around. Now I’m panicking that she could person transmitted thing during oral.
I can’t interaction her arsenic I don’t person her number.
Am I being paranoid?
DEIDRE SAYS: It’s uncommon to drawback an STI from oral sex, but it is possible. Several STIs tin beryllium dispersed this way, including Chlamydia and Gonorrhea.
If this pistillate had a acold sore, she could person transmitted a benignant of herpes to you. Many radical person the herpes virus, but don’t realise it.
If you’re worried, past it’s a bully thought to spell to your section Sexual Health Clinic for a afloat check-up. It should enactment your caput astatine rest.
To find retired much astir STIs, instrumentality a look astatine the NHS website (www.nhs.uk/conditions/sexually-transmitted-infections-stis/). You’ll besides find accusation determination astir your section Sexual Health Clinic.
In the future, it’s a bully thought to ever usage a condom with a caller partner, immoderate benignant of enactment you’re having.
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