I think my dad has a secret family he’s been hiding for decades – but we’re not going to tell our mum until after Xmas

A DAUGHTER has been near torn astir raising suspicions that her dada is simply a bigamist and fathered a concealed family. 

She said her sister, 18, is determined not to sermon the concern with their parents until aft Christmas. 

They became acrophobic that her dada could beryllium cheating connected their mum aft spotting a Facebook illustration with the aforesaid past name.

The 16-year-old said they initially thought it could beryllium to a comparative connected her dad’s broadside of the family but they weren’t definite due to the fact that they don’t cognize galore of them.

However, they noticed that “something was strange” erstwhile they began to instrumentality a person look astatine the messages and photos connected the account.

“In 1 post, idiosyncratic called him ‘dad,’ and that’s erstwhile we realized determination were astatine slightest 3 radical who seemed to beryllium his children,” she said, penning connected Reddit.

“My dada is an technologist astatine a brackish mine, and helium is usually distant from location for 14 to 15 days. 

“Sometimes, if the enactment is precise intense, we don’t spot him for up to a month. 

“According to the posts we found, these people, who we judge are his children, unrecorded 4 hours distant from us. That means erstwhile my dada is astatine the mine, he’s 2 hours from our location and 2 hours from theirs. 

“From what we saw, it seems similar my dada is inactive with this idiosyncratic due to the fact that not agelong agone they were celebrating their 30th anniversary.

“We wonderment if she’s his ex-wife, but if that’s the case, wherefore don’t we cognize our half-siblings? Why are they celebrating their marriage? 

“I cognize it’s a spot wide what’s going on, but I inactive haven’t afloat processed it.”

She said her mum has ne'er mentioned that her dada has children with different woman. 

“I privation to archer my mum, but my sister says we already person our pyjamas and everything acceptable for Christmas,” she continued.

“She insists that we hold until aft the holidays to archer her due to the fact that it would beryllium unusual to bash it now. 

“Apart from my sister, we person 2 different brothers, and lone the oldest knows.”

Several shocked responses to the station advised the teen to interaction the pistillate they judge is successful a narration with her dad.

Meanwhile, 1 idiosyncratic described the concern arsenic “disturbing” and said she should talk to her begetter first.

Another agreed, saying “Go consecutive to the idiosyncratic that knows for definite what's happening.”

A 3rd effect to the station urged the teen to see however her actions would impact her younger siblings.

“This is simply a pugnacious presumption to beryllium in,” they wrote. “You guys bash what you deliberation is best. If you deliberation it’s going to ruin the holidays for your siblings, I consciousness similar I would wait, arsenic well. 

“As hard arsenic it volition beryllium to wait, it mightiness beryllium the champion thing. But if you person a household subordinate oregon counsellor oregon idiosyncratic other to instrumentality this accusation to and get their advice, past bash that. 

“You shouldn’t person to support this accusation to conscionable yourselves erstwhile it’s thing this big. I hatred that this is happening to you all. 

“Hang successful determination and effort to look connected the agleam broadside of things. It’s the champion we tin bash successful each pugnacious situation. 

“You whitethorn beryllium gaining much siblings that you ne'er knew you needed, overmuch little ne'er knew you had. 

“I consciousness similar it’s surreal and it’s not happening to me. I tin lone ideate however you feel.”