I’ve been addicted to cheating since finding out my girlfriend’s pregnant

DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE had much than a twelve one-night stands since my woman told maine she was pregnant.

Now 1 of these women has contacted maine telling maine she’s large too.

I’m a 31 year-old-guy with an addictive personality. I’ve gone done spells of taking drugs, smoking and drinking to excess.

Everything I do, I spell all-in 100 per cent. This includes channelling my vigor into pulling women.

My woman is 27. When she said she was pregnant, we were some implicit the moon.

We’re readying connected moving successful unneurotic successful the New Year. The
baby is owed successful April.

I went retired with my mates to observe but got disconnected with a women successful the pub and ended up kissing her.

Since then, my obsession with women has returned with a vengeance.

Am I simply making up clip earlier I settee down to life
with my woman and go a dad?

One of the women I chased is simply a friend’s niece. She’s French
and 23 and was implicit present to amended her English.

She was staying with my person but helium had a holiday
booked with his woman truthful I offered to instrumentality his niece retired 1 evening.

I told my woman I was playing five-a-side football.

We had a large night, ending up successful her bed. She’s the 1 saying she’s large too.

I began to tot up the women I’d slept with implicit the past fewer months and I was into treble figures.

I can’t bring myself to enactment retired what the existent full is. And don’t adjacent cognize if I could retrieve them all.

In beforehand of my mates I laughter it off, but heavy down I’d truly similar to halt behaving truthful badly.

DEIDRE SAYS: It’s a mess. Your behaviour means you whitethorn suffer your woman and your household beingness and you’ll perchance person to wage attraction for 2 children.

Your woman wants this kid with you. The pupil has her determination to marque but she indispensable determine what is close for her.

If she has the baby, you’re going to person to confess to your woman portion you’ve inactive got quiescent clip unneurotic earlier your archetypal babe arrives.

You’ll person to beg your girlfriend’s forgiveness – and let’s anticipation she’s
reluctant to interruption up with you now.

Vow that the playing distant from location volition halt and you volition get assistance to curb your enactment addiction.

My enactment battalion called Can’t Be Faithful volition assistance and you tin find
further proposal and enactment done pivotalrecovery.org.