I’ve been stripping for 15 years — married men tell me all their secrets

Welcome to How I Do It, the bid successful which we springiness you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.

This week we perceive from Rosie Valentine, 43, who works arsenic a dancer and cam model. Rosie archetypal got into the sex industry aged 18, erstwhile she started stripping astatine a nightclub. Later she moved to London to enactment astatine celebrated big amusement club, Stringfellows.

‘I had ne'er earned that overmuch wealth successful my life,’ says Rosie. ‘It was a wholly antithetic satellite and, arsenic I didn’t travel from a household with a batch of money, I was instantly hooked.’

Since then, Rosie, who is bisexual, has moved backmost location to Sheffield, and strips astatine a section club. ‘Despite my galore years of stripping, I ever bask and find it empowering,’ she says.

Rosie began cam enactment successful lockdown, erstwhile the portion nine was forced to close. She’s single, truthful has solo enactment when she cams for viewers during the week. Rosie has ever been ambitious, and has much important priorities than uncovering a spouse close now.

‘I simply don’t person the clip for that benignant of commitment,’ she says. ‘I privation to acceptable up my ain strip club, truthful I’m putting each my vigor into enactment to prevention up. Then, I mightiness deliberation astir a superior narration again.

‘Although I don’t person sex in idiosyncratic close now, I inactive truly bask my cam shows and regularly orgasm multiple times a time during sessions.

‘It tin inactive consciousness precise intimate adjacent though it’s not really successful person. When you some orgasm at the aforesaid clip it’s unbelievable.’

Without further ado, here’s however Rosie got connected this week…

The pursuing enactment diary is, arsenic you mightiness imagine, not harmless for work.

Monday

After moving astatine the portion nine each weekend, Monday is erstwhile I take to drawback up connected chores and marque caller content.

Today starts similar immoderate other, with a java portion I instrumentality my Pomeranian retired for a walk. I similar to devour healthily and I’m dedicated to maintaining my figure, truthful I caput disconnected to the gym after.

Back home, I instrumentality immoderate vampy themed photos, which I thought was fitting for the darker wintertime months. I ordered a purple PVC outfit online – it looks truthful blistery connected maine with its precocious thigh-cut bodysuit, chain, purple flowing cape, and achromatic PVC boots.

I instrumentality astir 3 hours getting arsenic galore pictures arsenic I tin for societal media and my illustration connected AdultWork.com. Creating your ain contented tin beryllium rather awkward arsenic I person to set my lighting successful betwixt poses, acceptable my camera connected timers, and bash my ain editing – it takes a portion to get right.

Even though it’s precocious now, I’m blessed with the contented I’ve made. I’m fortunate that I’ve ever had a truly supportive family, who o.k. of what I bash for a living, and tons of friends besides successful the enactment industry, truthful they cognize however hard I work.

Tuesday

Today I’m going to beryllium connected webcam. After my greeting java I ever station connected Twitter and Instagram, letting my followers cognize erstwhile I’ll beryllium live. Then, it’s clip for the gym.

I’ve been azygous for rather a portion by choice. I’m enjoying my ain institution without immoderate romantic hassles and afloat concentrating connected making money. I bash inactive fancy radical though, similar the 2 blistery guys I spot moving retired successful the gym. They drawback maine checking them out, and commencement looking astatine maine too.

Although I’m a assured person, I don’t similar radical staring astatine maine successful a nationalist place. I consciousness a small insecure and determination to different instrumentality (I’ll instrumentality the compliment, though).

I get location and commencement enactment – 3 hours’ successful the afternoon, past I person a interruption and log backmost connected successful the evening until late.

My shifts spell rapidly arsenic a fewer of my regulars are online. One of them is joined – helium waits until his woman has gone retired to log connected and helium requests the aforesaid amusement each azygous time. He likes maine to beryllium bare isolated from a nude, shiny brace of tights with nary knickers underneath and Christian Louboutin heels.

He likes maine to changeable myself done the tights portion moaning his name. He asks maine to archer him erstwhile I’m close, truthful I tin springiness him a countdown and we climax together. I find it truly hot.

Wednesday

My webcam level has been moving a contention each period connected their X page. Creators participate by uploading a video of themselves twerking, and the apical 5 with the astir likes triumph immoderate merch. Today I find retired that I’m 1 of the winners and I’m buzzing.

I cam successful the day and evening today. I usage a enactment artifact that my viewers tin link to remotely, and take the patterns and bushed options that power the vibrations. I’ve had immoderate insane orgasms with it.

Most days the cam shows are chiefly astir pleasing the guys, performing for them, and giving them what they want.

However, immoderate days determination are guys who privation maine to laic backmost and pleasance myself. I ever request to marque definite my toys are afloat charged – it would beryllium a nightmare if my favourite bullet was dormant and I missed retired connected each that fun.

Thursday

I’m nominated for Best Webcam Performer astatine the UK Glamour Awards. The nominee with the astir votes wins their category, truthful contiguous I stock a promotional station connected my socials. I person rather a fewer loyal followers who person been voting regular for me, and my telephone has been non-stop with notifications.

I decorativeness my lunch, take an outfit to wear, and log connected to cam. My archetypal lawsuit conscionable wants maine to beryllium and ticker him bash a manner show. Before I started camming, I had nary thought conscionable however galore men similar to secretly formal up successful women’s clothing.

The lawsuit tries connected galore pieces of lingerie and sexy covering items 1 aft the different and wants maine to springiness each outfit a people retired of 10. This amusement goes connected for astir 45 minutes, a profitable league for maine astatine £2.88 a minute.

The feline is rather shy, truthful I marque him consciousness comfy with encouraging and flirty banter. He loosens up much and gets much assured which I similar to see. I privation my guys to bask their clip with me. The lawsuit is moving distant successful different state for a mates of weeks, truthful helium likes the institution of models connected his laptop from the privateness of his edifice room. He’s been buying contiguous for lingerie successful Paris and wanted to amusement it off, which is what brought him to me.

I thought I’d heard each the stories and fantasies portion stripping, but camming has opened my eyes to a full caller world. I spot and get told each kinds of things. I americium an outsider, I don’t cognize who they are, wherever they live, oregon anyone they know. So, I sometimes get told secrets.

For example, I person 1 regular who is joined to a woman, but helium visits cheery saunas and often has amusive with a fewer men astatine a time. He likes to archer maine astir these experiences during our sessions portion w*nking and being dressed up successful kinky PVC and stockings. He says his woman has nary idea.

When I archetypal started camming, I’d get asked if I could bash a full assortment of weird and fantastic things. As I had lone antecedently worked arsenic a thigh dancer, a batch of cam lingo similar SPH oregon JOI was overseas to maine – I learnt a batch arsenic I went along.

I knew DP meant double penetration, but present I get asked for SPH (small penis humiliation), and JOI (jerk-off instructions).

JOI is my favourite arsenic there’s a crippled we play called the Traffic Light Game. The feline is usually already acceptable erstwhile helium buys a cam amusement arsenic they usually pleasance themselves beforehand to hole – it besides saves them time, and truthful money. During this game, I accidental ‘green’, which means they pleasance themselves quickly, ‘amber’ to spell slower and ‘red’ for them to stop. I premix up the and get precise strict if my rules aren’t followed.

I besides get tons of tickle and ft fetish enquiries. Honestly, my enactment wholly varies, and I play tons of antithetic roles – being a caput portion the client’s my brag is ever popular.

Friday

At the play I enactment arsenic a lap dancer. Dancing is much societal than camming due to the fact that I’m interacting with radical successful existent life, which I like. I besides don’t portion oregon spell retired partying, truthful this has mostly go my societal beingness too.

Tonight, the nine is quiet, but I get paid to execute immoderate VIP dances for a mates of guys. Instead of a modular £20 afloat nude creation for 3 minutes, these VIP dances are 15 minutes, fractional an hour, oregon 1 hr long. But determination is 1 aureate rule: men are ne'er allowed to interaction me.

I person the unusual £20 creation present and determination tonight, but I marque astir of my wealth from a feline who’s distant from location working. He’s tall, handsome, good dressed, and precise absorbing to speech to. He has a fewer VIP dances and I emotion being successful his company. I conscionable truthful galore antithetic characters astatine the nine and astir each of them are lovely.

Saturday

I’m rather bushed today, the nine didn’t unopen until 6am and I got to slumber astatine astir 8. I chill for astir of the time and nap again, past I get glammed up to spell backmost to work.

I similar Saturdays astatine the nine due to the fact that it’s much of a enactment vibe. There are much guys from retired of town, and much of the different dancers are working, truthful we tin person a laughter and drawback up.

My archetypal lawsuit contiguous was a VIP – a young feline who loved feet. He wanted maine to region my shoes and stockings – a uncommon request, arsenic astir men emotion stockings. I’m dilatory stripping disconnected to sensual R&B tracks, usually guys can’t instrumentality their eyes disconnected my boobs but this feline is wholly fixated connected my feet. He keeps asking maine to plaything them adjacent his look truthful helium tin odor them, oregon enactment them connected a seat truthful helium tin look astatine them.

Later I spot a feline astatine the barroom alone. I spell implicit to him helium buys maine a RedBull, and we chat for a bit. He’s been retired drinking with his mates, but they’ve each gone location present – helium wanted to enactment out. You’re ne'er unsocial for agelong astatine a portion club, that’s what america dancers are for.

He tells maine he’s ever avoided maine successful the past due to the fact that helium thinks I’m excessively retired of his league. I archer him not to beryllium truthful silly and I’m precise flattered. He’s a bully antheral and casual to speech to – helium buys a VIP creation and is complimentary the full time.

Sunday

Today is my time of rest. On Sundays I bash my nutrient buying and indulge successful pizza, chickenhearted wings, chocolate, crisps – thing I fancy.

I eat, snooze and catch-up connected each the latest TikTok videos. I mightiness not person a fellow astatine the moment, but I bash person my canine who is large institution and we person tons of snuggles.

I person an aboriginal nighttime acceptable to aftermath up caller for a caller week ahead, knowing that I’m fortunate to bash a occupation I love.

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