I want to hire private detective to follow my husband – I’m certain he’s cheating on me

DEAR DEIDRE: IF I could spend it, I would get a backstage detective to travel my hubby due to the fact that I’m astir definite he’s cheating connected me.

He is connected his telephone each the clip and helium ne'er wants to person enactment – unless I initiate it. My gut tells maine he’s recovered different woman.

I’m 48 and he’s 50. We’ve been joined for 18 years.

At first, helium couldn’t get capable of me.

But for the past twelvemonth oregon so, we haven’t had enactment unless I suggest it. And often helium says no.

It makes maine consciousness unattractive and undesirable.

The lone crushed I tin deliberation of is that he’s getting enactment elsewhere. My suspicions person been increasing since I noticed his chemoreceptor is ever buried successful his smartphone.

I’m truthful anxious and unhappy astir this, I adjacent Googled section backstage investigators, and researched however overmuch they outgo to hire.

He denies thing is going on. What tin I do?

DEIDRE SAYS: Being rejected sexually is painful, but it doesn’t mean your hubby is having an affair.

It’s imaginable he’s gone disconnected enactment due to the fact that he’s stressed oregon having erectile problems.

The information you spot him truthful small that you privation to prosecute a PI suggests a heavy occupation successful your marriage.

Have an honorable chat with your husband.

My enactment packs, Looking After Your Relationship and Reviving a Man’s Sex Drive should help. You could besides see couples counselling.