I was engaged to a man who fathered 80 children

When Anika Phillips messaged Kyle Gordy connected Instagram successful February 2023, she wanted a baby.

It wasn’t your emblematic conscionable cute cliche. Anika, 39, from Germany, wanted 32-year-old Kyle to beryllium the begetter of her babe — he’s celebrated for fathering 80 children truthful far, and presently has 15 women large by him.

At the time, Anika was azygous and desperately wanted to beryllium a mother. But from the infinitesimal she hopped connected that archetypal video telephone with Kyle, she felt a ‘spark’; they some did. That spark, however, turned into a ‘nightmare’ eight-month agelong engagement for the couple, and peculiarly for Anika.

‘What made maine telephone our engagement off, was that helium wouldn’t see stopping sperm donations to different women,’ she said.

‘He wanted to inactive assistance radical conceive, either artificially oregon naturally, and that made it truly hard for america to determination forward. I knew heavy down helium couldn’t springiness it up. It was a nightmare from commencement to finish.’

Kyle, a self-proclaimed philanthropist, is simply a sperm donor from Los Angeles who offers his services for escaped successful a bid to assistance struggling families conceive. Any pistillate tin interaction him done his Instagram @kylegordy1234 oregon website, Be Pregnant Now.

After connecting online, the mates shunned accepted courtship and signed up for reality dating series, 90 Day Fiancé. In June 2023, the brace met successful idiosyncratic successful Malta, and filmed their archetypal authoritative day for the TV show.

They deed it disconnected astatine first, but Kyle’s refusal to halt getting different women large was instantly a problem.

‘I thought we were successful a committed narration erstwhile I archetypal met him successful person,’ she said. ‘But past helium told maine that arsenic precocious arsenic the week before, helium had performed an in-person insemination — meaning sex.

‘I was disgusted and hurt. My feelings were crushed and I couldn’t judge helium had fundamentally lied to me.’

And that wasn’t the lone issue. Anika claims Kyle scored her for her behaviour. ‘If I didn’t get capable points, determination would beryllium nary kisses of affection for me,’ she explained.

At the extremity of filming, aft astir 8 months of being engaged, the mates officially portion ways pursuing a ‘huge fight’ wherever each their issues came to a head.

A fewer months later, though, they started speaking again. Today they are friends and enactment 1 another, adjacent though it’s not romantic.

Annika said: ‘He’s helped maine done immoderate truly hard situations. Kyle ever makes definite he’s disposable erstwhile I request to talk, nary substance the clip of day.

‘Since we’ve go friends, each I privation is for him to beryllium happy.

Kyle is inactive offering his services to women who privation to beryllium pregnant. He took a abbreviated hiatus from donating sperm past last year, earlier opening to connection his sperm for a ‘select few’ women successful January 2024.

The ‘philanthropist’ antecedently revealed that his enactment beingness was ‘non-existent’ owed to his goodwill motion and that adjacent masturbation had go a ‘chore’.

While helium claims to person fixed this up to guarantee a steadfast sperm count, helium says helium is looking for emotion again – though the close idiosyncratic would request to judge his arguable hobby.

Kyle said: ‘My acquisition with Anika was decidedly 1 I volition remember. Although, I bash deliberation my manners were due [when we archetypal met].

‘The clip with her was fast-paced, truthful galore of the things I did would beryllium acceptable to most.

Finding emotion is, of course, hard owed to my circumstances, but I consciousness assured that it volition happen.’

He shared that, since the mates had formed their relationship post-engagement, Anika is giving him dating proposal and they’re readying a buying travel unneurotic truthful helium tin find much suitable day outfits.

‘It is unfortunate that we didn’t enactment out, but I worth our relationship and admit the proposal she gives me,’ helium added.

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