I was on Too Hot to Handle, now I’ve married a prisoner – here’s the really awkward way we have sex in jail

A WOMAN who met and joined a captive down bars has elaborate the “awkward” mode the mates person enactment during his incarceration.

Laura Gehrke, a erstwhile prima connected Too Hot Too Handle: Germany, met her hubby Joshua Stewart connected a situation penpal site.

Laura, 26, had signed up to the tract portion being stuck successful Dubai owed to visa issues and rapidly started chatting to Joshua , who is presently serving clip successful the US for homicide and possessing a controlled substance.

The brace “clicked” instantly, and would walk up to 11 hours a time talking connected the phone, prompting Laura to alert to the US to sojourn the 21-year-old astatine the situation wherever helium was locked up.

After six weeks, Joshua projected to his German world prima girlfriend, and the brace tied the knot astatine Washington State correctional installation successful June.

Now the 26-year-old has opened up astir however the brace get intimate, which she said was hard arsenic she has ne'er adjacent seen her hubby without his situation azygous on, fto unsocial slept with him.

“I tin nonstop pictures, helium can’t truthful I ever get truthful mad, I person to usage my imaginativeness truthful intensely due to the fact that I haven’t adjacent seen him without his garment on, not adjacent that,” she told the Excuse My Friend podcast.

She explained that she is allowed to nonstop pictures of herself successful lingerie but inmates are not capable to reciprocate.

The brace person been capable to enactment successful “phone sex”, which Laura said was the lone signifier of intimacy she tin presently bask with her husband.

“You’re being recorded truthful immoderate you bash connected the phone, idiosyncratic is listening,” she said.

“It tin beryllium a small awkward.”

The world prima besides opened up astir immoderate of the situation rules the brace person to abide by during her visits, including a clip bounds connected however agelong they tin interaction each other.

“You get 5 seconds to buss and 10 to hug, and they [the guards] look astatine you and volition enforce it erstwhile the seconds are over,” she said.

“How americium I expected to bask it erstwhile I cognize an serviceman is watching me? It’s weird.”

While she’s waiting for Joshua to service the remainder of his 7 twelvemonth sentence, she has travel up with a originative mode to combat her loneliness.

In a video shared to her TikTok account, she revealed she has a tiny plush artifact with his look printed connected it, implicit with his 2 look tattoos.

Laura has shared aggregate clips of her sleeping with the artifact and carrying it with her astir her location – adjacent her mum has got successful connected the action, giving the Joshua  artifact a buss connected the forehead successful 1 video.

However, portion Laura mightiness beryllium blessed successful her relationship, others are not arsenic convinced.

“I conscionable privation to cognize however down atrocious you person to beryllium to day a antheral successful prison,” wrote 1 professional successful the comments section.

“You’re standards indispensable beryllium truly debased to wed a debased life,” said different person.

“You bash immoderate makes you blessed and don’t interest astir what anyone other says, it’s nary of their business,” commented a 3rd follower.

“People don’t recognize that not everyone successful jailhouse is simply a atrocious person,” said different TikTok user.

This nonfiction was primitively published connected News.com.au and has been republished present with permission.