Jennifer Lopez's secret to getting over Ben Affleck revealed as she vows to 'try something new'

Jennifer Lopez is refraining from jumping into different narration truthful soon aft her daze divided from Ben Affleck arsenic she learns to enactment her vocation archetypal portion processing her 4th divorce.

The estranged mates rekindled their romance not agelong aft Lopez, 55, announced her divided from erstwhile shot prima Alex Rodriguez, 49, successful 2021.

The singer, who has not had agelong periods of being single, is present acceptable connected prioritizing herself and has nary plans to commencement dating, contempt reports claiming she is 'looking to person immoderate fun,' aft filing for divorcement from Affleck, 52, successful August.

'Jen similar astir people, would emotion to person emotion successful her beingness again,' an insider told DailyMail.com. 'But the 1 idiosyncratic she has to gis theive clip to close present is herself. If thing presents itself, past evidently beingness and emotion find a way, but she isn't looking to get into immoderate caller relationships.

'She is focused connected her enactment and wants 2025 to beryllium the twelvemonth she gets backmost to being herself. She isn't actively looking to day close present and is inactive processing losing Ben again.

'She likes being successful a narration astir instantly aft 1 ends, but close present she is trying thing caller and seeing if that works retired for her better.'

Earlier this week InTouch claimed that she was 'on the prowl again.'

'Obviously she's showing Ben what he's missing,' a root told the publication. 'She's not looking for a superior narration – for present – but she is looking to person immoderate fun. She's connected the prowl again.'

Addressing the reports, a root told DailyMail.com: 'She doesn't privation to get into thing that would beryllium a impermanent rebound.'

It comes weeks aft she discussed her daze divided from Affleck for the archetypal time, and declared: 'You person to beryllium bully connected your own.'

She gave caller penetration into their narration during a beryllium down with comedian Nikki Glasser for Interview magazine, successful which she described her heartbreak arsenic 'sad' and 'scary.'

'You person to beryllium complete, if you privation thing that's much complete,' Lopez told Glaser.

'You person to beryllium bully connected your own. I thought I learned that, but I didn't. And then, this summer, I had to beryllium like, 'I request to spell disconnected and beryllium connected my own. I privation to beryllium to myself that I tin bash that.''

In response, the comedian past asked Lopez if that was a 'hard' process - to which she said it perfectly was.

'It feels lonely, unfamiliar, scary. It feels sad. It feels desperate. But erstwhile you beryllium successful those feelings and go, 'These things are not going to termination me,' it's similar actually, I americium susceptible of joyousness and happiness each by myself,' Lopez admitted.

'Being successful a narration doesn't specify me. I can't beryllium looking for happiness successful different people. I person to person happiness wrong myself. I utilized to accidental I'm a blessed idiosyncratic but was inactive looking for thing for idiosyncratic other to fill, and it's conscionable like, 'No, I'm really good.''

The vocalist and actress, who did not sanction Affleck, added that she is 'not looking for anybody' close present and suggested that her ex did not clasp each her flaws.

Since the split, Lopez has been flying solo connected reddish carpets, including a screening of her caller movie Unstoppable, which was produced by Affleck, successful London past week.

She besides looked stunning astatine the Wicked premiere this weekend.

Lopez's August 20 divorcement filing came aft months of speculation that the A-list mates were connected the rocks.

The On the Floor vocalist filed connected the two-year day of their nuptials astatine Affleck's property extracurricular of Savannah, Georgia.

Lopez and Affleck made headlines successful 2021 erstwhile they rekindled their romance, astir 17 years aft calling disconnected their archetypal engagement and postponing their September 2003 wedding.

In April 2021, reports surfaced that the instrumentalist and the Oscar-winning manager were reconnecting aft Lopez's breakup with erstwhile MLB prima Rodriguez.

The mates confirmed their narration connected Instagram that July and made their reddish carpet instrumentality astatine the 2021 Venice Film Festival, and subsequently exchanged vows astatine the Little White Chapel successful Las Vegas connected July 16, 2022.

Lopez is parent to 16-year-old twins, Max and Emme, from her matrimony to Marc Anthony, 56, which lasted from 2004 to 2014.

She past started dating Beau 'Casper' Smart conscionable 4 months aft splitting from Anthony. They had an on-off narration until 2016 erstwhile they yet called it quits.

Lopez went connected to concisely day Drake earlier gathering Rodriguez.

She was besides antecedently joined to Cris Judd from 2001 to 2003 and Ojani Noa from 1997 to 1998.