Kate Lawler shouldn’t be shamed for sleeping with ‘over 50’ men – I could do it 11 times a day – my body needs it

WHEN it comes to casual sex, Tracy Kiss is each for it.

The 37-year-old azygous mum of 2 is each astir being intimate with idiosyncratic without the unit of a relationship, and she believes that regular connections are cardinal to her happiness. 

While she’s not into one-night stands, Tracy finds that the much intersexual experiences she has with someone, the amended it gets. 

She says: “If casual enactment means being intimate without the statement of a partner, past yeah, I’m each for it. 

“I don’t bash one-night stands, though - they’re usually implicit excessively quickly, and you don’t get overmuch retired of them. 

“I’m not into relationships, but it’s large erstwhile you get to cognize someone, due to the fact that you can’t ever cognize what idiosyncratic likes the archetypal clip around. 

“I deliberation casual enactment is fantastic successful the presumption of being intimate with idiosyncratic that you person nary volition of marrying.

“Then the enactment is large and it’s intolerable for maine to not person it doubly a day, and past connected Sundays astatine slightest 5 times a day. It's lone polite.

“Especially with the cost of living, you request to enactment in. 

“And you tin prevention connected the energy bills by doing it to support warm.

“You won’t request a gym rank either arsenic you're helping each different to enactment fit.”

That’s wherefore Tracy praised Kate Lawler for revealing that she loved having casual enactment earlier she got joined to Martin Bojtos. 

Kate, 44, told however she loved the azygous life and ne'er felt immoderate unit to get joined oregon person children.

Speaking connected the It Can't Just Be Me podcast with Anna Richardson, she said: 'I've been successful emotion a fewer times but I loved being azygous and conscionable having casual enactment with people, I astir apt did shade a fewer guys astatine the time. 

'I don't cognize however galore radical I've slept with but I cognize it's implicit 50 but my duplicate sister has lone slept with similar seven.'

And Tracy wholly agrees.

The contented creator previously appeared connected E4’s The Sex Clinic backmost successful 2020 for her sky precocious enactment drive.

But aft appearing connected the amusement Tracy antecedently revealed to Fabulous that she was trolled for admitting that she was a enactment addict who could bash 11 times a day.

She said: "I person been terribly attacked by women connected societal media and posted to my Instagram Stories to sermon the injustice.

"I was told connected TV that I americium perfectly mean and my precocious libido arsenic a pistillate is thing to beryllium ashamed of.

"They think, 'this pistillate is connected television saying she loves having orgasms and tin spell 11 times a day, present my fellow volition expect the aforesaid from me' oregon 'she looks easy, I don’t privation to beryllium associated with her'.”

The sustainable acquisition store proprietor continues: “I judge that you should person acquisition successful beingness to cognize what you want. 

“I deliberation if you tin bash it doubly a time - greeting and bedtime - minimum past that's great.

“Every clip you spell to furniture with your partner, you would privation to interact with them. You'd privation to buss them and cuddle and beryllium affectionate.”

According to a survey by Archives of Sexual Behaviour, People successful their 20s and 30s person enactment the astir often, portion older adults are usually little sexually active. 

People successful their 20s person enactment an mean of much than 80 times a year, oregon somewhat much than erstwhile each 5 days, whilst by the clip they get to the property of 45, radical person enactment an mean of 60 times per year.

Tracy, from Buckinghamshire, says: “That’s a depressing number. That means it’s fundamentally doubly a month. 

“No wonderment wherefore you spot truthful galore radical walking down the thoroughfare and astir breaking their necks to look astatine idiosyncratic pretty.

“Not having enactment truthful often tin truly crush you.

“I wouldn't beryllium capable to header with that. 

“I deliberation if you're successful a semipermanent narration and it falls to doubly a month, permission that relationship. 

“You virtually person your younker and your beingness conscionable once. 

It's truthful abbreviated and sweet. 

“And truthful galore radical are crying into their pillows astatine nighttime and going without orgasms oregon happiness oregon that butterfly feeling successful your stomach.

“I deliberation wherefore condemnation yourself to sadness.

“If you person truly genuine connections, similar a ‘friend with benefits’ benignant of scenario, past bash it arsenic overmuch arsenic possible. That’s an unthinkable concern to beryllium in. 

“That's the mode guardant to having a happy, steadfast life. 

“And past erstwhile you're successful a nursing location doubly a month, that's astir apt manageable then.

“But earlier past it should beryllium criminal.”

Tracy has ne'er shared a furniture with idiosyncratic without being intimate either. 

She says: “Even if they're upset, you would console them and past that would pb to a benignant of intimacy. 

“It whitethorn not beryllium crazy, mind-blowing, oregon passionate, but it would beryllium tender and delicate. 

“I've ne'er shared a furniture with idiosyncratic that I past wasn’t intimate with, adjacent if I’ve had a row, and adjacent if they're tired, there's inactive that connection.”

Tracy, who has 1.2 cardinal Instagram followers, antecedently wrote a station connected however masturbation is “a earthy and mean portion of beingness and thing we request not beryllium embarrassed nor ashamed about.”

Tracy, who has since divided from her partner, wrote: “Personally I masturbate 2-3x per day, fundamentally whenever I’m successful furniture connected days erstwhile I haven’t been sexually intimate with my spouse and request a intersexual release. 

“I realise that this whitethorn look similar an highly precocious magnitude that astir women couldn’t lucifer fto unsocial imagination of discussing oregon confessing.”

Despite admitting that her preferred method of pleasance is intersexual intercourse, she added that masturbation is simply a “key part” of her time and keeps her “smiling from receptor to ear”. 

Tracy said that she has explored successful the past if she is simply a “sex addict” aft having partners who could not lucifer her stamina successful the chamber - but conscionable recovered she has a precocious enactment drive. 

She explained: “I find that if I don’t person pleasance astatine nighttime that I’m incapable to unwind, unbend and sleep arsenic soundly arsenic I person pent up intersexual hostility that keeps maine alert overmuch similar drinking a java oregon vigor drink.”