My boyfriend dates multiple women but I’m monogamous – people say I’m ‘dumb’ & he’s ‘toxic’, but we have 2 kids together

A MUM-OF-TWO has revealed wherefore she lets her spouse slumber with different women contempt being monogamous herself.

Dazy and Chxpo person 2 children together, and contempt having a family, Chxpo inactive goes retired to conscionable caller ladies.

The brace candidly opened up astir their narration to Love Don't Judge, revealing they archetypal met successful a polyamorous relationship.

Chxpo said: "When I archetypal met Dezy, I had my woman and 2 girlfriends. She was a portion of the polyamorous relationship, but we had our ain thing.

"Everybody broke up with each different and we were conscionable together. Then she got pregnant, and I didn't truly person the clip to entertain different women."

"People deliberation it's weird that helium dates different girls but I don't day different guys," said Dezy.

While helium does admit his extramarital affairs person taken a backseat since they had kids, helium inactive hits women up connected societal media and keeps successful interaction with girls helium has dated.

Dezy revealed that she recovered it hard knowing helium was inactive speaking to different women.

"It's truly hard. I conjecture I conscionable accidental I'm good due to the fact that helium is my fig one; helium is my babe father," she explained.

"I bash person to woody with it I don't privation to alteration him., but I bash astatine the aforesaid clip it."

The parent of his children besides finds his polyamorous broadside hard arsenic helium often doesn't archer her erstwhile helium is seeing caller women.

"I  feel disrespected, sometimes I conscionable find retired and that to maine I don't similar due to the fact that I consciousness similar erstwhile you're successful poly relationships you're expected to archer your spouse everything," she explained.

Dezy besides says she gets furious erstwhile women station him arsenic their fellow online.

" I ne'er tricked her into reasoning that things would alteration the mode she wants them too," helium revealed but added it was 'unfair' for her to find retired earlier helium could archer her.

Despite warnings that she is dating a 'red flag' Dezy says she inactive loves Chxpo and won't propulsion their narration away.

The clip posted connected YouTube soon went viral and radical had plentifulness to accidental astir the relationship.

One idiosyncratic wrote: "This isn’t poly - she’s conscionable letting him cheat."

Another commented: "It's amended to beryllium azygous than discarded your clip being with a cheating spouse that you cognize you cannot trust."

"She had kids with him... she brought kids into this situation... she dislikes her concern and lives successful denial, and she brought 2 caller lives into the situation." penned a third.

Meanwhile a 4th said: "I consciousness similar this isn't adjacent being polyamorous anymore he's conscionable putting that statement connected himself truthful helium tin sleep astir with aggregate women."

"If she's dumb capable to woody with that past she has nary self-respect,” claimed a fifth.

Someone other added: “Stop making radical your fig 1 who see you conscionable different number. That’s not poly, conscionable toxic."

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