'My cougar girlfriend is amazing in bedroom - but 20-year age gap poses one problem'

A lovestruck 27-year-old toyboy has recovered himself dealing with a frustrating contented with his cougar girlfriend, 49, contempt their antics successful the chamber being 'fantastic'

A 27-year-old toyboy couldn't beryllium happier with his cougar girlfriend - but their age gap has thrown up a tricky sticking point.

According to this lovestruck man, he's 'proud' to beryllium with his 49-year-old partner, who helium describes arsenic 'beautiful, confident, autarkic and fantastic successful bed'.

Although astatine first, helium faced a spot of ribbing from his mates, who referred to him arsenic a 'toyboy', this troubled Romeo views his lover's mature property arsenic a positive, with her acquisition meaning she 'knows precisely what she likes and however to please' him.

Unfortunately, though he'd beryllium blessed to outcry astir their relationship from the rooftops, she doesn't rather consciousness the aforesaid mode and, 3 years in, she's inactive excessively 'embarrassed' to present him to her household and friends...

In a hopeless missive penned to The Sun's Dear Deirdre Sally Land, the anonymous romanticist shared how, though they present walk respective nights of the week unneurotic - arsenic good arsenic each play unneurotic - it's ever astatine his home, not hers.

Although galore of his friends person recovered the property quality confusing, adjacent pals person present travel to judge that the narration is based connected acold much than conscionable sex. And helium can't recognize wherefore she can't invited him into her world successful rather the aforesaid way.

Sharing his woes, helium wrote: "It's starting to get maine down. I'm not atrocious looking, person a bully occupation and my ain home. I can't recognize wherefore she's ashamed of me. We person a batch of interests successful common, and she's ne'er made maine consciousness she thinks I'm immature.

"I've told her however blessed she makes maine and that 1 time I'd similar to wed her. But that can't hap if she is keeping maine a secret. As acold arsenic I'm concerned, property is conscionable a number. Why can't I marque her judge that too?"

Responding to the author's dilemma, agony aunt Sally reasoned that, though galore property spread couples bash so bask 'happy, lasting relationships', nine tin often beryllium each excessively speedy to walk judgement.

Sally advised: "Perhaps your woman feels she volition beryllium judged harshly, oregon her friends won’t person thing successful communal with you. She whitethorn beryllium acrophobic astir the aboriginal - for example, if you privation children, which she won't beryllium capable to springiness you.

"Or she whitethorn besides not genuinely judge you're successful it for the agelong haul. Alternatively, possibly she isn't, which is wherefore she's keeping you to herself. You request to speech to her openly astir your worries. Tell her however you consciousness and inquire her to beryllium honest."

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