My friend cares more about Taylor Swift than she does about me

DEAR DEIDRE: MY person cares much astir Taylor Swift than she does astir me.

She truly fto maine down erstwhile I was sick, and present I’m not definite if I privation to beryllium mates anymore.

We’re some 17-year-old girls, and met connected a instrumentality forum. She lives successful London and I unrecorded successful Hertfordshire. 

We grew truly close. When Taylor Swift announced her tour, she asked if I wanted to spell with her, and enactment astatine her parents' house. 

I got the bid down to London and she met me, but during the gig I felt truly unwell.

I managed to marque it through, but wanted to spell consecutive location after. She refused, truthful I had to bent around, feeling dreadful.

Now she keeps moaning that I spoiled her night. 

DEIDRE SAYS: Friends should look retired for each other.

Your mate was intelligibly excited astir seeing Taylor Swift, but she should person been much sympathetic erstwhile you were ill.

Moaning astir it present is selfish and immature.  

If you privation to enactment friends, archer her however you feel. My enactment pack, Standing Up For Yourself, should help.