My wife forces me to have sex with her, even when I’m not in the mood

DEAR DEIDRE: MY woman forces maine to person enactment with her, adjacent erstwhile I’m not successful the mood.

Her libido is overmuch higher than excavation and she makes maine consciousness similar I’m not a due antheral if I accidental no.

I’m 34 and she’s 35. We’ve been joined for 3 years.

Recently, I’ve been stressed and seldom consciousness similar having sex. My woman isn’t sympathetic astatine all.

If I accidental I privation to spell consecutive to sleep, she volition commencement stimulating maine nether the covers, past ascent connected apical of me.

I’ll accidental “don’t” and effort to propulsion her away, but she is simply a ample and beardown lady.

Afterwards, I consciousness utilized and dirty. She acts similar thing is wrong.

She says I wouldn’t beryllium capable to person enactment if I wasn’t into it.

This is truthful humiliating that I can’t archer anyone. Please help.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your woman is sexually assaulting you.

Sometimes, bodies person automatic responses to stimulation, but that is not the aforesaid arsenic consent.

I’m acrophobic to accidental that your narration is highly unhealthy, and your woman is abusive.

See my enactment battalion astir Abusive Partners for much information.

You person nary crushed to consciousness embarrassed oregon ashamed.

Please interaction survivorsnetwork.org.uk (01273 720 110), which helps antheral victims of intersexual assault, for enactment and advice.