People are all saying the same thing about TikTok girl who made viral song after being dumped

If going done a breakup isn't atrocious enough, ideate penning a catchy opus to stock the communicative - lone for it to service arsenic a instrumentality for statement implicit whether oregon not your fellow really ever loved you.

Content creator Jillian Lavin, who posts under @spritelynotthesoda, shared a catchy tune successful a TikTok video connected October 14, which told the communicative of her three-year-long narration breaking down.

In the one-and-a-half infinitesimal clip, she tells the communicative of dating a antheral successful Los Angeles for 3 years, erstwhile helium told her helium wanted to determination backmost to Texas to beryllium person to his dad.

She went with him - though immoderate radical person pointed retired it wasn't specified if helium asked her to - singing that she 'gave up fractional her career, discontinue her improv troupe and had a goodbye party.'

She continues, adding that she 'depleted' her savings and took months disconnected enactment to hole for the determination earlier driving to Texas with her fellow and their cat.

'It's truthful worthy it for the emotion of your life,' she sings, showing photos of the assorted stages of her move.

After spending a period waiting for her belongings to get and moving in, she says they were 'so happy' - until helium abruptly broke up with her.

'He comes backmost from a household vacation, sits connected your sofa [and] hands you a enactment that says we person thing successful common, we're incompatible,' she sings.

Cutting betwixt videos of her crying with videos and photos of him, she writes 'how did I not announcement the full time.'

'What a surprise! Thank you for informing maine that this full clip we had thing successful common,' she crones.

From there, Lavin admits helium had to battalion up her car for her - due to the fact that she was crying excessively hard - earlier she drove to Florida to unrecorded with her mom.

Initially, her video was met with implicit sympathy, but aft it gained traction and was posted connected different platform, users speculated astir Lavin's relationship.  

'If nary of them told her that moving to Texas and draining her savings for a fellow was a atrocious idea, were they truly her friends??' 1 idiosyncratic wrote connected X, antecedently known arsenic Twitter. 

'I person a feeling dis ain't the afloat communicative tbh it conscionable doesn't adhd up, it has that feeling of erstwhile you cognize you was successful da incorrect truthful you permission retired fractional of the communicative and the idiosyncratic your telling benignant of clocks that you near retired a monolithic chunk that would alteration the dynamic,' said another. 

'And ladies, this is wherefore you should ne'er springiness up connected your dreams/studies/work for a man,' idiosyncratic other added.

Another idiosyncratic did a heavy dive done her societal media, claiming that her fellow actively didn't similar her, screenshotting videos that accidental helium 'barely tolerates humans' (including her) and won't stock his groceries.  

In a comment, Lavin clarified however the speech astir the determination went, writing: 'Well helium virtually did accidental "*I* privation to determination backmost to Texas" and I was similar "oooookkayyyy mode to outpouring this connected me, bash youuu privation maine to travel with you..?" and helium said yes,' she shared.

'But I deliberation helium hadn't afloat processed his feelings connected the matter,' she continued. 'I get it, I've been the dumper before, I cognize it's hard and confusing. But OMFG bash it BEFORE I MOVE, GOSH.'