RICHARD EDEN: What the Queen REALLY thought of Meghan. My extensive research and Palace sources have unearthed troubling new questions about her and Harry's behaviour

The Duke and Duchess of Sussex named their girl Lilibet arsenic a tribute to her paternal great-grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II. But what did the precocious Queen truly deliberation of Meghan Markle?

That's what I've been looking into for the adjacent variation of my YouTube tv series, Reading The Royals. And that probe has raised immoderate troubling questions astir Prince Harry and Meghan's behaviour.

There's nary uncertainty that the Queen warmly welcomed the American histrion into the Royal Family.

The archetypal wide grounds of that came immoderate clip earlier Meghan and King Charles's younger lad had exchanged vows astatine St George's Chapel successful 2018.

While different women who had joined into the Windsors, specified arsenic Kate Middleton and Sophie Rhys-Jones, had to hold until aft their weddings to beryllium invited to walk Christmas astatine Sandringham, Meghan was allowed to articulation Harry successful 2017, 5 months earlier the large day. It was an unprecedented and highly idiosyncratic motion by the Queen.

There was besides a notation to 'new members' of the household successful the Queen's Christmas broadcast that year, which was wide thought to beryllium different motion to Meghan, arsenic good arsenic to the expected accomplishment of Prince William and Catherine's 3rd child, Louis, the pursuing April.

The Californian intelligibly felt astatine location astatine the royal retreat successful Norfolk, aboriginal saying connected her Netflix bid Harry & Meghan: 'I retrieve truthful vividly the archetypal Christmas astatine Sandringham, calling my mom, and she's like, "How's it going?" and I said, "Oh, my gosh, it's amazing." It's conscionable similar a large family, similar I ever wanted. And determination was conscionable this changeless question and vigor and fun.'

Courtiers accidental the Queen believed that Meghan – a divorced, mixed-race American histrion – would beryllium a enactment of caller aerial and a large plus to the Monarchy.

The Queen fast-tracked her introduction into the Royal Family, inviting Meghan to articulation her astatine a work to people Commonwealth Day – her archetypal authoritative engagement with the Queen – 2 months earlier the wedding. It was different wide denotation that Her Majesty valued Meghan and wanted her to beryllium seen arsenic a portion of the household without delay.

However, arsenic the mates prepared for their wedding, the Queen began having concerns astir Meghan's behaviour and approach.

First, she was said to beryllium amazed that the caller accomplishment rejected her proposition that Prince Edward's wife, Sophie, connection her guidance connected joining 'The Firm'.

Her Majesty was besides taken aback astatine the divorcee's prime of a achromatic bridal gown for what was her 2nd wedding - but it was Meghan's cognition towards her headwear that gave the Queen much superior origin for concern.

She had offered Meghan entree to her postulation of tiaras and, during what Harry aboriginal described arsenic an 'extraordinary morning', allowed her to effort them connected successful beforehand of her, her devoted dresser Angela Kelly and a royal jewellery adept successful her backstage dressing room.

Something aboriginal went severely wrong, however, erstwhile Meghan tried to put a fitting with Kelly, who, it seems, did not similar the mode successful which she was being treated by the bride and groom.

Perhaps accustomed to ordering astir underlings connected a tv shoot, Meghan whitethorn not person been utilized to dealing with idiosyncratic specified arsenic Kelly, who - though a servant - was besides a confidante and person of the Queen.

Harry denied successful his memoirs, Spare, that helium angrily told Kelly, 'What Meghan wants, Meghan gets.' He did, however, admit they had been exasperated by the dresser, who 'fixed maine with a look that made maine shiver'.

He added: 'I could work successful her look a wide warning. This isn't over.'

Despite each the pre-wedding strains, and possibly a increasing apprehensiveness astir Harry's prime of bride, the Queen made definite that Meghan felt invited successful the royal fold.

She gave her the Duchess of Sussex title, and invited her granddaughter-in-law to travel her connected a solo sojourn to Chester conscionable weeks aft the nuptials, prompting Meghan to archer Oprah Winfrey successful 2021: 'The Queen, for example, has ever been fantastic to me.'

Other thoughtful gestures by Her Majesty included handing Meghan a relation arsenic royal patron of the National Theatre and giving her important positions wrong the Commonwealth. Meghan was named arsenic the Vice-President of the Queen’s Commonwealth Trust successful 2018.

How did Meghan repay that generosity and kindness? By announcing, via a connection connected the Sussexes' Instagram leafage successful January 2020, that they would beryllium stepping backmost arsenic elder moving royals.

Meghan past attacked the Royal Family successful the astir damaging mode successful that Oprah interrogation and later, successful 1 of the astir cringeworthy moments successful her and Harry's Netlfix 'docu-series', appeared to mock the heavy curtsy that she had performed successful beforehand of the Queen astatine their archetypal meeting.

I person spoken to unit who worked astatine the Palace erstwhile the Sussexes were moving royals, and immoderate of them person told maine that they formed the content from the commencement that Meghan whitethorn not person wanted to marque a occurrence of her beingness successful Britain.

She appeared to beryllium actively seeking reasons to beryllium unhappy oregon resentful, and encouraged Harry's long-standing bitterness astatine being the 'spare' and not the heir, the courtiers claim.

How bittersweet that the Queen's genuine efforts to invited Meghan during her last years, erstwhile she was successful failing health, were thrown backmost successful her face.

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