HEARING a pounding connected her beforehand door, mum Megan Brailsford opened to find the constabulary connected her doorstep for the 4th clip that week - this clip flanked by equipped cops.
The loving mum-of-two, from Peterborough, Cambs, had been accused of sidesplitting her children by an anonymous caller to the section unit - amid a terrifying stalking run that lasted 4 months.
Megan, 31, was bombarded with decease threats and rape threats - astatine 1 constituent each 4 seconds - and had taxis ordered to her location astatine each times of the time and nighttime for 4 months.
Ex-partner Dan Dugdale, who was inactive surviving successful her house, had besides been reporting vile messages from the anonymous stalker.
In an exclusive chat, Megan told The Sun: “He made my beingness hell. I became a recluse due to the fact that I was excessively frightened to spell out. I couldn't locomotion the dogs connected my own. I couldn't truly spell anyplace without different adult.
“Taking the kids to schoolhouse and going to enactment was frightening. I mislaid friends due to the fact that I became paranoid arsenic to who was doing it to me.
“It near maine feeling wholly insane by the mediate of it all.”
The terrifying ordeal for the veterinary caregiver has been caught connected camera by Channel 4’s 24 Hours successful Police Custody - including the galore visits cops made to her location implicit reports she had murdered her children oregon ex Dan.
Murder confessions
The mates met successful the municipality quadrate successful Peterborough, which is wherever Dan asked her retired connected a date.
Megan's mum Lisa said: "He seemed blessed and bouncy, similar an overgrown puppy."
But Megan was unsure astir seeing Dan until her mum persuaded her to springiness him a chance.
The brace dated for astir six months earlier helium moved successful with Megan and her 2 children, a lad aged 11 astatine the clip and a girl aged seven.
My evil ex accused maine of rape, faked her ain kidnapping and stabbed herself past blamed maine successful existent beingness Fatal Attraction case
Lisa told The Sun: "I consciousness hugely blameworthy for what happened to her due to the fact that I suggested she springiness him a chance.
"They seemed good from the extracurricular but things weren't great. He cheated connected her and determination had been abuse.
"But erstwhile they broke up, she tried to beryllium benignant and fto him slumber connected her sofa until helium recovered somewhere.
"She didn't archer maine astir the messages she was getting for a agelong time."
Initially, Megan assumed the chilling texts were from a prankster that Dan had annoyed, who would soon get bored.
The messages started disconnected with things similar “I’m watching you” and “That’s a bully dog. Shame if it got hurt,” earlier progressing into hoax execution reports to the cops.
Random radical were messaged connected Snapchat and Facebook from the stalker, pretending to beryllium Megan confessing to sidesplitting her children and asking for them to telephone the cops.
There were besides calls to Social Services claiming she was a enactment idiosyncratic and took drugs astir her kids.
Things past became much sinister and Megan received messages saying “Megan are you acceptable to die?”, “I wouldn’t rape you, you’ll beryllium begging for it” and “can I termination you, your kids would beryllium amended disconnected without you”.
She was besides sent videos of bestiality, pornography and photos of mutilated dogs that looked similar the ones she owned.
Megan besides had to woody with taxis turning up astatine her doorway time and night, booked successful her sanction and connected her credit card.
You honestly consciousness similar you’re losing your mind."
Megan
“I was getting nary slumber astatine night, possibly 2 hours astatine most,” she said.
“That was due to the fact that of each the messages, constabulary perpetually being called retired to my location and the taxis that would crook up.
“I’d enactment up truly late, anxious that the constabulary would crook up. I started sleeping successful my kitchen.
“I had to transportation a panic alarm with me, arsenic did my children, truthful I had to explicate it to them successful a mode that didn’t permission them frightened.
“I was exhausted.”
Suicidal thoughts
As the tirade of maltreatment ramped up, Megan struggled to header and her mum recovered her astatine 1 of her lowest points.
"She had nary beingness and 1 time I went circular and fto myself successful the location to find her connected the room level successful a foetal position," Lisa recalled.
"She looked astatine maine and said 'Mum I can't bash this anymore. Will you look aft my babies?'
"Something successful maine snapped and I told her we weren't doing that and to get up.
"I deliberation that made thing drawback for her excessively and she decided she wouldn't enactment up with it anymore."
In a bid to get Megan feeling safer, Lisa helped her girl alteration the locks and installed information cameras.
Dan besides offered to determination backmost in, to enactment arsenic protection.
Fake claims
In an interrogation successful the documentary, Dan claims helium was disquieted astir being killed.
“I person anxiousness attacks rather a lot, I shake, I’m frightened that someone's gonna termination me,” helium claimed.
“I tin beryllium sat successful a country afloat of people, you don’t cognize what a, b, c, idiosyncratic is going to bash to you. How are you meant to spell retired with friends erstwhile you consciousness similar that? When everyone is against you.”
But successful a horrifying twist, it turned retired that Dan was down the sustained run of maltreatment - and cops judge helium adjacent discontinue his occupation to give his full clip to stalking his ex.
After helium was arrested by the cops for stalking Megan, his telephone was recovered to person accessed accounts that sent her abusive messages and a deleted enactment with an identical connection that was sent to the 101 web chat.
Initially helium denied stalking her, but yet claimed helium wanted to apologise to Megan. He inactive denied immoderate harassment, including reporting her to Social Services successful a bid to get her children taken away.
The malicious study alleged that Megan was a prostitute and utilizing drugs successful the aforesaid location arsenic the kids.
“That study to societal services broke me,” Megan said.
“He’d threatened it and past backed down but helium evidently had done it.
The sending of the dependable notes with a changed audio was conscionable perfectly chilling. It was similar thing retired of a fearfulness movie."
DC Emily Richardson
“I’m conscionable grateful that radical listened to me. I thought I was sounding similar a huffy pistillate erstwhile I relayed what was going on.”
Dan had besides emailed Megan's work, masquerading arsenic her, to resign and besides messaged the Royal College of Veterinary Surgeons asking to beryllium removed from the veterinary nurses register.
Detective Constable Emily Richardson, 34, had started to judge that Dan was down the maltreatment due to the fact that of the idiosyncratic details that were included successful the messages.
But it took clip to stitchery capable grounds to beryllium capable to apprehension him and prehend his telephone for examination.
Once she had arrested him, she was capable to find grounds connected his telephone that made it wide helium was down it.
Reflecting connected the investigation, she said: “Stalking cases are horrible and scary, but this 1 was perfectly relentless.
UK stalking statistics
It is believed that 1 successful 7 Brits person experienced immoderate benignant of stalking since the property of 16, according to the bureau of nationalist statistics.
Women are much apt to beryllium the unfortunate of stalking past men, with 1 successful 5 having experinced it successful immoderate capacity.
Where arsenic conscionable 1 successful 11 men person expereinced it successful immoderate form.
It is estimated by the ONS that 1.5million radical aged 16 oregon implicit person expereinced stalking successful the 12 months ending successful March 2024.
The idiosyncratic doing the stalking volition person an obsession with the idiosyncratic they are targeting. The behaviour is akin to harrassment but is much agressive.
Stalking is defined successful UK law, and tin see the pursuing behaviours:
- regularly pursuing someone
- repeatedly going uninvited to their home
- checking someone’s net use, email oregon different physics communication
- hanging astir determination they cognize the idiosyncratic often visits
- interfering with their property
- watching oregon spying connected someone
- identity theft (signing-up to services, buying things successful someone's name)
“Dan discontinue his occupation truthful that helium could bash it full-time. He utilized truly horrible idiosyncratic things against her.
“The sending of the dependable notes with a changed audio was conscionable perfectly chilling. It was similar thing retired of a fearfulness movie.”
Victim blaming
During the interviews, Dugdale refused ineligible proposal claiming helium knew what helium wanted to say.
He besides kept insisting that helium was a unfortunate of anonymous maltreatment arsenic good but was caught retired by a deleted dependable enactment which said: "I've killed my kids. I request your help. I person weapons successful the house. They are not breathing. I person buried them connected the canine walking trail."
It was identical to a connection sent anonymously to 101's webchat which had sparked an equipped effect to Megan's home.
Despite initially trying to contradict it, Dugdale yet confessed to being down astir of the maltreatment sent to Megan.
Incredibly, helium was inactive keen to beryllium progressive successful the C4 documentary aft being arrested.
I consciousness hugely blameworthy for what happened to her due to the fact that I suggested she springiness him a chance.
Lisa, Megan's mum
In 1 chat connected camera, helium chillingly blamed Megan for his stalking behaviour and obsession with her.
He said: “Love breaks truthful quickly. That [pointing to an M tattooed connected his finger] is the archetypal of the miss who got maine successful trouble.
“One happening I bash judge in, the worst cause you tin bash is emotion and everyone wants a bit. It’ll ruin you.”
How you tin get help
Women's Aid has this proposal for victims and their families:
- Always support your telephone nearby.
- Get successful interaction with charities for help, including the Women’s Aid unrecorded chat helpline and services specified arsenic SupportLine.
- If you are successful danger, telephone 999.
- Familiarise yourself with the Silent Solution, reporting maltreatment without speaking down the phone, alternatively dialing “55”.
- Always support immoderate wealth connected you, including alteration for a wage telephone oregon autobus fare.
- If you fishy your spouse is astir to onslaught you, effort to spell to a lower-risk country of the location – for example, wherever determination is simply a mode retired and entree to a telephone.
- Avoid the room and garage, wherever determination are apt to beryllium knives oregon different weapons. Avoid rooms wherever you mightiness go trapped, specified arsenic the bathroom, oregon wherever you mightiness beryllium unopen into a cupboard oregon different tiny space.
If you are a victim of home abuse, SupportLine is unfastened Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 6pm to 8pm connected 01708 765200. The charity’s email enactment service is unfastened weekdays and weekends during the situation – messageinfo@supportline.org.uk.
Women’s Aid provides a live chat service - disposable weekdays from 8am-6pm and weekends 10am-6pm.
You tin besides telephone the freephone 24-hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline connected 0808 2000 247.
When Megan was informed it was Dugdale that had been down the abuse, she burst into tears but admitted it made sense.
Megan says their narration had collapsed due to the fact that of his changeless cheating and mediocre behaviour.
In the documentary, Megan said: “I was barricaded wrong my location each the time. Doors locked, windows locked.
“You honestly consciousness similar you’re losing your mind. I ended up lashing retired astatine everyone and shutting myself off.”
Sinister reminder
After Dugdale’s apprehension and charge, Megan decided to redecorate her country successful a bid to effort to determination on.
But she was horrified to find emotion notes he’d scrawled nether pictures each implicit the house.
One said: “Just cognize I was arrogant to telephone you mine, each my everlastingly love, Dan.”
Megan said: “I wanted thing to bash with him and yet I was having to spot his handwriting and these loves notes connected the wall. It made maine consciousness truly uncomfortable.”
Dan was convicted of stalking, inciting fearfulness of unit and perverting the people of justice. He was sentenced to 3 years and 9 months successful jail.
Traumatised, Megan has had to determination distant from Peterborough and says she volition debar the municipality altogether retired of fearfulness erstwhile Dan is released .
- 24 Hours In Police Custody: The Murder Messages is connected Monday 25 November astatine 9pm connected Channel 4