Stark naked for the world to see - how utterly pathetic… Yes, Kanye's mad. Yes, she loves the attention - but there's a forgotten person I feel desperately sorry for: AMANDA GOFF

Unless you've been surviving nether a stone for 2 years, you would've heard immoderate of the pearl-clutching implicit Bianca Censori being a 'hostage' of her hubby Kanye West.

'Blink doubly if you request help, Bianca.' 'Would idiosyncratic delight assistance her?'

I'm not present to clasp an intervention. Do I cognize what's happening successful the marriage? No. But there's an statement to beryllium made that she's a consenting spouse successful their associated endeavor to beryllium arsenic provocative and attention-seeking arsenic possible.

Case successful point, yesterday's Grammy Awards. 

I thought I'd seen it each - until that infinitesimal when Bianca, an architecture postgraduate from a well-off Melbourne family, dropped her achromatic fur overgarment to reveal... well, everything.

The property battalion couldn't judge their luck. Within minutes, hundreds of photos of this young pistillate with her bare assemblage connected show successful a wholly see-through formal were splashed crossed the tabloids.

The property censored (should that beryllium Censori-d?) the racy bits, but that didn't halt societal media users from reposting the earthy images astir the world. 

Not surprisingly, the uninvited guests promptly got shown the door, but Kayne and Bianca achieved what they acceptable retired to do: predominate planetary headlines and overshadow the nominees with their pathetic manner stunt.

If articulator scholar Nicola Hickling is close successful her claims, earlier flashing the world, Kayne had brusquely instructed Bianca to 'start making a country now'. And that she did.

But the show's implicit now, folks. Mission accomplished.

By now, Ye and B are astir apt successful their pyjamas, tucking into In N Out burgers, laughing to themselves arsenic they transverse disconnected 'go to the Grammys naked' from their twisted bucket list.

Slow clap.

Except I don't deliberation it's precise funny, oregon peculiarly clever. Showing your coochie astatine the Grammys successful beforehand of a frenzy of paparazzi is hardly what I would telephone brave. It's not a feminist protest, oregon governmental statement, oregon a enactment of art.

I telephone their stunt trashy, unsophisticated and desperate, not to notation humiliating for Bianca and conscionable plain weird.

But there's idiosyncratic we are forgetting here. The pistillate who is nary uncertainty trying - yet again - to shield her children from the photos, the memes, the frenzy, the headlines, the controversy.

And that is Kayne's ex-wife Kim Kardashian, parent to his 4 kids, daughters North and Chicago, and sons Saint and Psalm. North and Saint, astatine 10 and 8 years old, are aged capable to cognize what is happening, and astatine six and four, Chicago and Psalm aren't acold behind. The children person met Bianca.

Never successful a cardinal years did I ever deliberation I'd accidental this, but looking astatine the photos of Bianca lasting determination bare connected the world's stage, it wasn't Bianca I felt atrocious for; it was Kim.

Now, I don't often sympathise with multimillionaires, truthful fto maine explain.

Kim is nary alien to controversy. She became celebrated due to the fact that of a leaked enactment portion with vocalist Ray J backmost successful 2007. She wears revealing clothes, oils up successful a bikini and, astatine this point, I cognize each curve and dip of her backside amended than I cognize my own.

But Kim has matured. She's worked hard connected her representation that balances motherhood and moving her SKIMS empire, and it someway works perfectly.

As the superior carer of the children since divorcing Kayne, Kim has expressed concerns astir her ex-husband's unpredictability. Still, she's been quoted arsenic saying that, arsenic acold arsenic her kids are concerned, the communicative is always, 'Your dad's the best.'

Oh, Kim. You indispensable beryllium forcing those words retired done gritted teeth now, arsenic she spends the next fewer weeks snatching phones distant from her kids, trying to shield them from images of their 'stepmother'.

And that's not to notation the information Bianca has fashioned herself into a Kim 'klone' since shacking up with Ye.

I conflict to ideate the sheer mortifying fearfulness of seeing your ain representation projected onto the blank, voiceless mannequin of different pistillate – past paraded nude successful beforehand of the full world.

Seriously, however tin she look successful the eyes of her daughters and accidental 'your dad's the best' erstwhile he's parading his bare woman astir similar this? And what benignant of connection does this nonstop to their sons, Saint and Psalm, astir however women should beryllium treated?

How galore excuses tin she travel up with? 'Dad's expressing himself, dad's artistic, dad's cool, you cognize what your begetter is like…' How agelong tin she support defending his madness? Perhaps she doesn't fuss anymore.

It's communal cognition Kayne has bipolar, a superior intelligence upset that tin origin periods of utmost mania followed by crashing bouts of depression.

It's 1 hellhole of an unwellness and 1 I cognize lone excessively good due to the fact that I was besides diagnosed with it a mates of years ago.

Bipolar tin marque you bash brainsick things; it takes you connected a chaotic ride, particularly successful fits of mania. There are things I've done, fuelled by mania, that I present look backmost connected successful disbelief. While I don't blasted my bipolar for each mistake, my diagnosis has helped maine recognize my behaviour a batch much and I request to instrumentality my meds. Every. Single. Day.

Do we blasted Kayne's unpredictable behaviour connected his bipolar disorder? Do we disregard Bianca arsenic conscionable different Hollywood attention-seeker?

Bianca is simply a 30-year-old woman. She's nary ingénue. I judge she knows precisely what she's doing, I don't uncertainty that for a moment.

Perhaps she's excessively infatuated with her hubby to spare a thought for his erstwhile wife. 

Every clip Bianca and Kanye propulsion disconnected 1 of their stunts, my thoughts instantly spell to Kim and the kids. I cognize she's successful an unwinnable position: if she criticises him, she's speaking against the begetter of her children; if she says nothing, she's an enabler.

Co-parenting is hard capable but it is adjacent harder erstwhile 1 genitor is erratic and unpredictable.

Speaking connected a idiosyncratic level arsenic idiosyncratic with bipolar, I had to turn up, benignant my beingness retired and instrumentality work for my precise nationalist actions. I deliberation it's clip Kayne, and Bianca, did the same.

It's clip to telephone last curtains connected the circus – for the involvement of the children.