When I accidentally got my girlfriend pregnant, you guided me through

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I archetypal wrote to you, I was facing a dilemma aft accidentally getting my woman pregnant.

She’d asked maine to determination successful and afloat perpetrate to her and our baby. 

I’m 48 and she’s 39. We had been together, but surviving apart, for 3 years and some had children from erstwhile relationships. 

She fell large erstwhile my condom split, and contempt not wanting much children, I said I’d enactment her determination to person the baby. 

But I didn’t privation to spell backmost to changing nappies oregon full-time fatherhood.

After six months she demanded I determination successful - oregon said she’d extremity things.

You advised maine to speech astir my feelings and recommended couples counselling. You besides reminded maine of my responsibilities to my babe daughter.

I’d decided to perpetrate erstwhile a misunderstanding led to a immense row, aft which she finished it, and blocked me.

Again, you were determination to enactment me, Deidre. 

Eventually, she agreed to talk. I realised however overmuch I loved her and wanted to marque things work. We're present having counselling.

Thank you Deidre for your ongoing support.

DEIDRE SAYS: I’m truthful gladsome you’ve been capable to enactment things out, not slightest for the involvement of your baby. Now I anticipation you tin physique a supportive and loving family.