When I discovered my husband was on sex sites, you helped us work it out

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I discovered my hubby had joined enactment sites to look astatine bare women, helium blamed me, saying it was due to the fact that I didn’t springiness him capable attention.

He claimed helium hadn’t met up with anyone for sex, but I didn’t judge him.

I’m 45 and he’s 48. 

I was truthful aggravated and wounded by his actions - and his denial - that I wrote for advice.

All the spot had gone, and I couldn’t spot a mode forward. But I didn’t privation to extremity an 18-year marriage.

You were truthful helpful, making maine inquire myself hard questions astir my feelings for my hubby and our marriage.

You suggested narration counselling - some unsocial and unneurotic - and gave maine immoderate of your enactment packs, similar Looking After Your Relationship.

Then you wrote backmost to spot however I was and we had respective conversations, successful which you gave maine much nutrient for thought.

I realised we hadn’t been communicating decently astir our stresses, alternatively retreating into our ain shells.

My hubby has present agreed to spot a counsellor together, and we’re moving connected our marriage.

Thank you, Deidre, for giving maine truthful overmuch comfortableness and advice.

DEIDRE SAYS: I anticipation with counselling you tin find a mode to forgive him and repair your marriage.