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- Sally Land
- The Sun's Agony Aunt
- Published: 17:30, 22 Nov 2024
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I discovered that my woman was messaging a erstwhile student, I was horrified.
I was adjacent much alarmed erstwhile she told maine she planned to conscionable him.
I’m 43 and she’s 39. The kid is 16.
She taught him erstwhile helium was 11. They’ve some since near the school, and she came crossed him connected societal media, earlier this year.
She said she was the lone 1 helium could unfastened up to astir his hard location life, and she was conscionable supporting him. But I felt it was inappropriate and disquieted she’d get into trouble.
You told maine I was close to beryllium concerned. However guiltless her motives, she could suffer her occupation due to the fact that her actions could beryllium seen arsenic grooming.
You advised maine to archer her not to conscionable him.
In addition, you made maine deliberation astir our narration and whether thing was lacking - specified arsenic a child.
We talked astatine magnitude and she admitted she craved a kid who needed her.
She’s stopped the regular messaging and has agreed not to conscionable the boy.
Now we’re readying to commencement our ain family. Thank you, Deidre.
DEIDRE SAYS: I’m pleased I was capable to assistance you speech to her. I privation you some tons of luck for the future.
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