When my ex couldn’t make his mind up about me, you helped me make the break

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex was similar Jekyll and Hyde - he’d beryllium each implicit maine 1 day, past vanish and shade maine for the adjacent three.

It made maine truthful unhappy and insecure that aft months of this, I ended the relationship.

But adjacent aft we’d split, I felt truthful confused and needed answers. That’s wherefore I wrote to you.  

I'm 23 and he’s 25. We were unneurotic for a year.

After I broke up with him, helium blocked maine instantly. That truly wounded arsenic I didn’t get the closure I needed. 

You told maine I’d done the close happening by ending the relationship, arsenic I had nary aboriginal with him.

But you said I mightiness ne'er get closure. It was imaginable helium had idiosyncratic else, oregon helium was simply unstable. 

You advised maine to speech to a counsellor and work your enactment pack, Mend Your Broken Heart. 

A fewer months on, I americium truthful overmuch happier and realise however having him successful my beingness was affecting my ain intelligence health. 

I present consciousness overmuch much together, stronger and calmer. 

Thank you Deidre.

DEIDRE SAYS: Sometimes, it’s hard to spot however unhealthy a narration is until you’re retired of it.

I’m gladsome you’ve realised this antheral was atrocious news, and are yourself again.