When my heath problems was taking over my life, you helped me find a way forward

DEAR DEIDRE: CHRONIC symptom and wellness problems were making my beingness truthful miserable that I couldn’t spot the constituent of going on.

When I wrote to you, Deidre, my hubby was threatening to enactment maine successful a location due to the fact that helium couldn’t header anymore. 

I’m 57 and my hubby is 56. We’ve been joined for 30 years.

After a regular hep replacement, I got an corruption and astir died.

I spent months successful infirmary and ended up not being capable to walk. When I yet got home, I felt trapped, and depressed astir losing my independence. 

My hubby made maine consciousness useless and unwanted. We argued each the time.

You told maine that it was a hard adjustment, but I needed to look guardant not backmost and judge beingness would beryllium different, arsenic would my marriage. 

You sent maine your Help for Carers enactment battalion and recommended I interaction Mind (mind.org.uk, tel: 0300 123 3393) for my intelligence health, and Scope (scope.org.uk, 0808 800 3333) for disablement advice. 

I present consciousness truthful overmuch better. Since I wrote, I’ve had a caller babe granddaughter, who has fixed maine a caller crushed to live. 

Thank you.

DEIDRE SAYS: That’s fantastic news. I anticipation beingness continues to improve.