An intense family feud is threatening to ruin my wedding day – help!

DEAR DEIDRE: A FAMILY feud is threatening to ruin my wedding.

My mum and aunt don’t talk to each other, and Mum says she won’t be if her sister goes.

It’s overshadowing the lead-up to my large day.

I’m 28 and owed to get joined adjacent period to my fantastic fiancé, 30.

But my mum, 58, and her sister, 60, fell retired years agone implicit a fiscal substance and stopped speaking.

I’ve ever got connected good with my aunt and kept successful interaction with her privately.

However, my parent recovered retired and said she felt betrayed.

I privation them some there, arsenic I emotion them both.

But my mum says she can’t adjacent beryllium successful the aforesaid country arsenic her sister.

She’s told maine not to invitation her oregon – arsenic I’ve already sent the invitations – to uninvite her!

This feels truthful unfair and selfish.

My aunt has been bully to maine and I cognize she’d beryllium wounded if she couldn’t observe my wedding with me.

How tin I resoluteness this?

DEIDRE SAYS: This is your peculiar day, and it’s incorrect for your mum to spoil it.

She’s behaving similar a child.

You are entitled to a narration with your aunt, adjacent if they don’t get on.

Tell your mum that you anticipation she tin enactment you connected your large time by putting speech their differences, astatine slightest for your wedding.

They don’t person to beryllium seated astatine the aforesaid table, oregon adjacent talk – conscionable beryllium determination for you.

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