I asked TikTok to help me find a man I couldn’t stop thinking about, they came through but things didn’t go as planned

A SINGLETON implicit 40 was near stunned erstwhile societal media users helped her to find a antheral she met astatine a concert.

Pam had been incapable to halt reasoning astir the enigma man aft helium disappeared into the crowd.

Pam (@pamj2990) has garnered astir 25,000 followers connected TikTok, wherever she shares a glimpse into her life.

She went viral erstwhile she utilized the societal media app to hunt for a antheral who she spoke to astatine a concert successful Birmingham, Alabama.

“Right earlier Chris Stapleton came connected a antheral walked up to me,” she said.

“A big, tall, gorgeous antheral walked up to maine and said 'I’ve been present since 5 o’clock and I privation to get backmost to the front, wherever my spot was.'

“I said ‘Well conscionable accidental excuse me, they volition fto you through.’ 

“I thought helium was genuinely asking for my help.”

She was amazed erstwhile alternatively of taking her proposal helium enactment his limb astir her waist and said helium wanted to enactment lasting with her.

Having been azygous for little than a twelvemonth aft being married for 40 years, she was speechless by his actions.

The antheral disappeared into the assemblage and Pam said not getting his sanction erstwhile she had the accidental was her “biggest regret.”

Among the 712,000 viewers of her video was a pistillate who was capable to find the antheral aft recognising that she had been lasting adjacent them astatine the concert. 

“Less than 24 hours she messaged maine backmost with a representation of this guy, his name, his wife’s name, wherever helium works and the metropolis helium lives successful which is close adjacent to my city,” Pam said.

“The antheral conscionable got joined successful April which is precise bittersweet and tragic.”

Her followers were arsenic disappointed that the antheral wasn’t azygous aft becoming invested successful the saga.

“Oh man, I’m truthful sorry. I was hoping for a emotion connection!!” 1 idiosyncratic said.

“Loving your updates! Sad he’s joined but you’re beauteous and you merit a large guy!” different wrote.

“You are excessively saccharine and I’m gladsome that you recovered retired the truth,” a 3rd chimed in.

“There’s bully ones retired there. Just beryllium patient,” different wrote.

Despite the hunt not resulting successful a date, Pam said she would inactive similar to conscionable a spouse successful existent beingness than connected a dating app.

"I got joined erstwhile I was 17,” she told PEOPLE. “I had children precise early. I've got 5 grandchildren. 

“When I was dating, arsenic a teenager, you met radical successful school. I knew them, I knew their families. I knew their history. 

“Fast guardant 42 years and it's a precise sombre scene.”