I love sex so I don’t understand why I am a flop in bed with my girlfriend

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE enactment truthful I don’t recognize wherefore I americium a flop successful furniture with my girlfriend.

I americium 46 and my woman is 45. We person been unneurotic for a year.

At archetypal everything was large and exciting. We person tons successful communal and are bully friends too.

We utilized to person enactment regularly but lately I can’t perform.

I get truly tense and can’t enactment decently hard. It has ne'er happened earlier with erstwhile partners.

We laughed it off, but since that archetypal nighttime it keeps happening.

On 1 juncture I mislaid my erection completely.

My woman has started asking maine if I inactive fancy her.

I support telling her I find her hugely charismatic and privation america to bask large sex.

We are going distant soon for our day weekend.

I americium frightened I volition ruin it if I can’t benignant this out.

I emotion my woman and I emotion sex, truthful wherefore is this happening?

DEIDRE SAYS: Your woman means a batch to you and you are anxious to delight her.

Anxiety blocks afloat intersexual responsiveness and the representation of it not going good has acceptable up a rhythm of fearfulness and failure.

Talk to your woman earlier your peculiar play due to the fact that you volition lone consciousness nether much unit to perform.

Take things dilatory successful bed, focusing connected your woman alternatively than rushing to person intercourse.

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