I’m at my wits end with the constant bullying from my aggressive partner

DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of dealing with changeless bullying from my assertive partner, I’m astatine my wits end. 

No substance what, successful her eyes I tin ne'er bash thing right, and I’ve had enough. 

I’m 65, she’s 60, and we’ve been unneurotic for 15 years.

At first, our narration was afloat of love. We’d recovered solace successful each different aft the extremity of some of our marriages. 

However, implicit the years she’s grown cold, and arsenic her intelligence wellness has deteriorated, truthful has our relationship. 

Now she spends each time picking astatine me, and astir each speech we person ends up successful a screaming match.

All I ever bash is effort to delight her, but it’s astir arsenic if she finds joyousness successful berating maine and leaving maine frightened. Just past week, she said if I didn’t perceive to her, she would get her member to 'sort maine out’. 

To marque matters worse, she’s besides changed each of the bills into her name, truthful I person nary power implicit immoderate of our finances.

I consciousness truthful stuck successful this relationship, but I fearfulness there’s nary escape. 

Please help.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your narration sounds abusive, and it’s wide your woman is making your beingness miserable. 

While you whitethorn consciousness similar there’s nary escape, there’s ever a mode out. 

My enactment pack, Abusive Partner, explains much and contains details of organisations that tin assistance you permission if that’s what you privation to do.

Seek enactment from friends oregon household too, truthful that they cognize what’s going connected and tin beryllium determination for you.