'I'm fuming with my mum - she won't stop hugging and kissing my daughter without consent'

A mum says she is grateful for assistance with childcare but has criticised her ain mother's actions which she says are 'disregarding' her rules

A pistillate is furious with her mum for kissing her girl without her consent.

She is trying to thatch her 2 twelvemonth aged astir consent but says her ain parent is making it hard she does not disguise for support earlier kissing her granddaughter. The parent is grateful for assistance with childcare but has critcised her actions, which she says are 'disregarding' her rules. The mum shared her feelings astir the concern connected Netmums and said: "My girl is coming up to three. I'm trying to commencement teaching her that her assemblage is hers, and she tin accidental nary to hugs and kisses etc if she wants, but my mum is making it impossible.

"She assists maine greatly with childcare, which I'm highly grateful for. But I've noticed that erstwhile my girl says nary to a buss oregon cuddle, my mum ever says things similar 'don't beryllium silly, of people you tin hug your nanny', and conscionable goes successful for the buss anyway. I've attempted to sermon this with her, but she believes I'm being absurd, and that a 3 twelvemonth aged doesn't cognize what she wants, and household should ever get cuddles, etc." Seeking guidance, she asked different users however they would negociate the concern - but the feedback she received was not rather what she anticipated.

The Daily Record reports that she added: "Just wanted to get immoderate opinions to spot if different radical deliberation I'm being ridiculous, too? I conscionable privation my girl to turn up feeling similar she has immoderate power implicit her ain body. If everyone thinks I'm mad, I'll permission it, but if not, I tin amusement my mum that it's not conscionable me!" But not everyone agreed with her absorption connected the parenting forum, aft she aired her views.

And 1 idiosyncratic said: "You're being ridiculous. Sorry to beryllium blunt." Another idiosyncratic besides added: "In abbreviated if you're not blessed with the level of attraction past you tin enactment your kid with different childcare provider." A 3rd idiosyncratic said: "Sorry but you're being ridiculous. Your mum helps retired with childcare but she's not allowed to give/get hugs and kisses from her granddaughter. It whitethorn beryllium a bully thought to thatch your girl that she's allowed to accidental nary to hugs and kisses from extended household and friends but not contiguous family!"

Another poster connected the parenting tract added: "Sorry, you are being ridiculous. It's her nan, she evidently loves her precise overmuch and provides loving attraction for her. It's OK to thatch your girl astir boundaries but contiguous household successful this discourse is wholly different, your mum is simply a "safe" adult, she is not a hazard to your child, it's the full opposite."