It’s been two years since we broke up but I can’t stop thinking about my ex

DEAR DEIDRE: EVEN though it's been 2 years since we broke up, I can’t halt reasoning astir my ex. 

She was my archetypal emotion - the miss I mislaid my virginity to - and I don’t deliberation I’ll ever conscionable anyone similar her again.

I’m a 19-year-old girl. She’s a twelvemonth older, and we met erstwhile I was 15.

We were truthful blessed astatine first, doing everything together. But implicit time, we started to argue.

She broke up with maine erstwhile she went distant to university, saying she didn’t privation to beryllium tied down to 1 idiosyncratic truthful young.

I was gutted but thought I was moving on. I adjacent had a fewer abbreviated relationships. 

But present I consciousness wholly stuck. I can’t get her retired of my caput and realise I’ll ever emotion her.

DEIDRE SAYS: The mode you’re feeling isn’t unusual. First loves tin beryllium precise hard to get implicit due to the fact that your emotions are truthful intense.

Losing your archetypal emotion is similar a bereavement. Although you won’t hide your ex, you tin find emotion and happiness again.

Talking astir your feelings is helpful. Contact The Mix (themix.org.uk) for under-25s advice.