Killing Kittens has launched a gay sex party – I went along to see what happens

Music blaring, a bearded, burly antheral successful a choky achromatic tee, agleam pinkish sweatband and kilt walks connected signifier with whip successful hand.

Grabbing a bid of rosebuds (not a euphemism) from down the DJ deck, helium places them successful assorted parts of his assemblage – his hands, down his back, and betwixt his teeth – past whips each 1 into a large petally mess.

Ripping disconnected his flimsy tee, the antheral reveals a chiselled thorax and arsenic the lights darken 2 volunteers are called up to lend a helping hand. Spraying fluorescent overgarment (again, not a euphemism) onto 1 of their palms, the archetypal unpaid begins to hitch their hands implicit his hairsbreadth chest.

Soon, the now-dripping performer ripped his kilt disconnected to uncover a tiny thong hardly covering a immense bulge and it’s the 2nd volunteer’s crook to lube up his hands with overgarment – accidentally splashing immoderate connected his look successful the process – and drawback a fistful of the man’s butt.

Drenched head-to-toe, the formerly-kilted antheral has 1 last uncover – ripping his thong off, helium exposes a huge, flaccid dick.

This whitethorn beryllium the archetypal penis I spot this evening, but it surely isn’t the last.

That’s due to the fact that I americium astatine KK Homme’s motorboat lawsuit – the spin-off brainchild of Emma Sayle, laminitis of Killing Kittens, which boasts implicit 200,000 members worldwide. The high extremity enactment party was created successful 2005, successful a bid to fosters a harmless abstraction for women to person each of the control.

But portion galore women discovered their bisexuality successful the safe, female-focused space, the question for the entrepreneur remained – what astir the men?

‘A batch of the bigger gay nine nights spell dense connected the masc wordplay and imagery, which tin beryllium intimidating for galore bi-curious men,’ Emma tells Metro. ‘KK Homme offers a abstraction for bi and cheery men – arsenic good arsenic transmasc men and non-binary radical – to bask intimacy and speech done safe, backstage exploration.’

As soon arsenic the invitation landed successful my inbox – detailing an ‘extravagant evening wear’ formal codification implicit with masquerade masks – I was intrigued.

As a cheery man, I’d explored kink nights earlier – similar Torture Garden and Klub Verboten – but had ne'er been to 1 specifically catered to men who person enactment with men (MSM). Sure, I’ve seen my just stock of saunas and acheronian rooms successful cheery clubs, but this seemed similar it offered thing different, classier.

I asked my person (with occasional benefits) Alfie* if helium wants to articulation maine and helium enthusiastically agreed. 

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So opting for a brace of achromatic leather trousers, a mesh top, leather coat, boots, and a metallic mask, I conscionable Alfie astatine our section eastbound London bid presumption connected a chilly evening and we marque our mode to Heathrow connected the Tube — collecting looks the full way. 

For the past limb of the journey, we leap into an Uber, which drives america to a lavish spot successful Berkshire. Snaking our mode done a long, winding driveway implicit with respective checkpoints, we finallu get astatine our venue for the night: an imposing mansion lit up successful red.

Taking a heavy breath, it’s present oregon never. Donning our masks, we greet Emma successful the entranceway and manus implicit our phones to beryllium locked distant successful pouches that we support successful our pockets. 

The archetypal country we participate is the large reception country with the signifier and I instantly announcement a immense contraption successful the mediate of the country filled with kink toys, similar agelong wispy feathers and whips. No uncertainty disposable for each to use.

Then the performances start, including the aforementioned whip guy, arsenic good arsenic a sultry portion tease from the maestro oregon ceremonies (or ‘mistress of the house’, helium clarifies to Metro).

After everyone is sufficiently salivating, Alfie and I disperse into the adjacent room for a drink. This is wherever we’re greeted by a server offering a spoonful of caviar with a vodka changeable – they don’t bash this astatine Sweatbox…

We conscionable respective people, including a lawyer, writer and circus performer. The second simply walks successful the country wearing a jockstrap (and footwear, of course) and introduces himself – I can’t rather callback however we get onto the taxable of nihilism portion he’s lasting determination with his bare ass out. 

After a fewer drinks for liquid courage, Alfie and I determine to adjacent into the adjacent play rooms. There’s 1 for each genders past different adjacent doorway conscionable for men, but they aren’t rather arsenic afloat arsenic I was hoping.

We locomotion into the all-gender country to spot a smattering of mixed-gender couples smacking and spanking successful the corner, past 1 lone mates successful the mediate enthusiastically going astatine it.

For a fewer moments, we articulation a increasing radical of onlookers, including a feline who casually strips down into a wrestling singlet with the crotch chopped retired portion we’re successful the mediate of chatting. Hot.

Feeling oddly shy, I inquire Alfie if helium wants to cheque retired the male-only country to spot what it’s like. When we enter, it’s adjacent emptier than the erstwhile room… truthful I determine to bash thing astir it.

I crook to Alfie and buss him, past 1 of the guys we met successful the room earlier sees, truthful comes up to maine and kisses me. Next happening we know, we’re stripping down into our underwear and moving onto the heap of mattresses successful the mediate of the room.

One happening leads to different and there’s a flurry of activity, earlier I announcement a fewer others getting the assurance to portion down excessively and commencement putting connected a abstracted show.

Somewhat preoccupied, I look astir astatine 1 constituent and announcement a fewer radical watching us, but I don’t caput astatine all. I deliberation I adjacent spot idiosyncratic I vaguely know, but I don’t care. In fact, I weirdly emotion seeing radical inactive afloat clothed and mask-clad looking on.

A small portion later, I determine to get different portion truthful I spell to enactment my trousers backmost on. But earlier I permission the room, I tally into the feline I met earlier successful the wrestling singlet and helium jokes: ‘Finally! I was hoping I’d bump into you again.’

Needless to say, there’s large chemistry and I’m feeling a batch little shy truthful we commencement fooling astir together. Spoiler alert, the singlet stays connected throughout.

At the aforesaid time, I tin spot the country filling up much and tin surely perceive much enthusiastic grunts than ever. I besides spy idiosyncratic successful the country of the country bent implicit a pommel horse-like contraption and being teased with toys. 

After I decorativeness up with Mr Singlet, I’m funny astir what Alfie is getting up to truthful I determine to spell to the all-gender country to spot if he’s there. Sure enough, we bump into each other.

Something astir this frenzied situation consumes maine truthful Alfie and I commencement hooking up. Then, suddenly, a dependable echoes passim the country to alert america that the lawsuit is ending and we each request to determination along. I cognize from the invitation that it’s scheduled to adjacent (somewhat early, I thought) astatine 2am, but this feels truthful sudden.

Reluctant to go, we slink disconnected to get dressed earlier collecting our coats and getting our phones unlocked. Putting my disguise backmost connected felt redundant aft losing each consciousness of mystery just hours before.

Emerging from the mansion into the chilly autumn air, Alfie and I leap into an Uber to marque the hour-long trek backmost to eastbound London. We some giddily hold that it was a amusive and surely eventful nighttime that offers thing much upmarket than your regular gritty cheery parties.

Looking backmost successful the acold airy of the adjacent day, we realised determination weren’t arsenic galore radical arsenic we thought determination would be. But to beryllium fair, it was KK Homme’s motorboat enactment – truthful if it has the occurrence that Killing Kittens has garnered implicit the years, it could surely capable a spread (no pun intended!) that the London queer antheral enactment enactment country needs.

Founder Emma Sayle agrees: ‘It’s an exclusive solemnisation of each things bold, beautiful, and beyond fabulous for the cheery oregon bisexual man.

‘At the extremity of the day, we privation to bash for cheery and bisexual men what we’ve done for women,’ she says. ‘Create a harmless abstraction wherever they tin spell to larn astir themselves, distant from shame, stigma, and judgement.’

*The sanction of the writer and their person has been changed

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