My boyfriend denies cheating on me with his ex despite proof in text messages

DEAR DEIDRE: A TEXT sent to my fellow by his ex said, “The enactment was fantastic”.

Why won’t she permission america alone? She’s ever been a pain.

Their narration ended 3 years agone but she’s ever messaging him and present I deliberation they are having sex.

They person a lad together. My fellow is 31 and I’m 28. His ex is 33.

I thought he’d ne'er kept secrets from maine but helium near his telephone connected the room array and thing told maine to look astatine his messages past weekend. His ex said she truly missed the enactment with him.

I scrolled done erstwhile messages and it was evident to maine that they inactive slumber unneurotic erstwhile helium visits his son, who is four.

I told him what I’d recovered and helium denied it, saying helium didn’t cognize what I was connected about.

He won’t speech to maine astir her and doesn’t recognize wherefore I’m upset.

DEIDRE SAYS: His small lad is portion of his beingness truthful you person to judge that but what you bash not person to judge is his betrayal and gaslighting.

Tell him that, if the narration is going to continue, ignoring this is not going to marque the occupation disappear.

Insist that from present on, helium brings his kid to your location alternatively and that helium indispensable not beryllium with his ex alone. If helium strays again, you request to determination on.

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