'My cheating ex is marrying my best friend but still demands I attend his big day'

A pistillate has taken to societal media to stock however her ex-boyfriend and champion person person been 'harassing' her to be their wedding - and they garbage to instrumentality nary for an answer

A pistillate has been near scratching her caput aft her ex-boyfriend and champion person persistently invited her to their wedding. Confused, the pistillate shared however her ex-boyfriend, Josh, 27, broke up with her to prosecute her champion friend, Ana, 25, a fewer years agone - and portion she was bittersweet astir the concern astatine the time, she has since travel to presumption with it.

However, 3 years aft nary interaction and they're present trying to rebuild their narration with her capable to get her to be their wedding. She said connected Reddit : "I received a connection from Ana, telling maine that she and Josh were getting joined and that they would similar maine to beryllium a portion of the wedding party. I replied 'Congratulations. No, convey you.' I had nary feelings for Josh anymore and I’m adjacent seeing idiosyncratic else, but I don’t privation to observe the wedding of 2 radical who betrayed me.

"They were insistent. Josh besides messaged maine via a antithetic number. Some of my friends besides tried to person maine to travel to the wedding. I firmly said no. Even my mum called maine asking if I was going and erstwhile I said no, she sounded disappointed but she didn’t propulsion it. This is each conscionable rather weird to me. Why would you privation your ex-girlfriend/ex-best friend, the miss you cheated on, to beryllium portion of your wedding party?"

Despite rejecting their invitation implicit and implicit again, the mates continued to 'harass' her successful an effort to get her to hold to attend. The bride's mum started calling her, claiming she'd beryllium greatly missed, and asked her to reconsider. She said: "I firmly said that I would not beryllium going. Her mum berated me, saying that I should fto bygones beryllium bygones and that I should beryllium blessed for her daughter.

"I asked her if I cheated with Ana’s fellow and past invited her to the wedding, would she person Ana to go? She had nary reply to this and I hung up." Seeking proposal connected however to grip this situation, she added: "This is rather getting retired of manus due to the fact that I’m receiving much than 20-30 calls and texts a time from their friends and household astir this wedding. Any proposal connected however to grip this? Also immoderate insights connected wherefore they privation maine to spell to their wedding? I don’t deliberation it’s mean that they are precise insistent."

Commenting connected her post, 1 idiosyncratic said: "They privation you astatine the wedding to assistance relieve their ain guilt they deliberation it volition marque radical deliberation each is forgiven and forgotten erstwhile successful world nary 1 volition ever spot these 2 radical with their partners oregon friends ever fto them rot and if radical spell connected and connected chopped interaction with them too."

Another idiosyncratic added: "I fishy Ana doesn't person a batch of pistillate friends. No 1 trusts her astir their boyfriends. No 1 wants to beryllium her bridesmaid. Ana made her bed, and present she tin laic successful it. They'll halt bugging you aft the wedding. In the meantime, block."

A 3rd idiosyncratic said: "They privation you astatine the wedding to rewrite history. They started their narration successful the worst imaginable mode and astir apt deliberation that if you’re astatine the wedding it legitimises their start. They couldn’t perchance person betrayed you if you were astatine their wedding.

"Out of involvement person you asked them wherefore they are truthful insistent? Part of maine would privation to spell and ruin their day. Wear red. Tell stories astir however they got together. But I’d astir apt conscionable artifact them all, they’re not worthy the effort."