My daughter is stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship with an addict

DEAR DEIDRE: EVERY payday, my daughter’s cause addict spouse makes her instrumentality retired currency to wage disconnected his indebtedness to his dealers.

I’m disquieted sick for her. She’s successful a convulsive and emotionally abusive narration with a loser, but she’s excessively frightened to study oregon permission him.

I’m 54 and my girl is 22. Her spouse is 25.

She’s been with him for 2 years. Although she has a bully job, helium doesn’t enactment oregon assertion benefits. 

He has a superior cause wont and is peculiarly nasty erstwhile helium needs his adjacent fix.

As helium has nary mode of paying disconnected his debts, helium makes my girl wage the dealers erstwhile they crook up astatine the flat. 

If she objects, helium threatens her, saying he’ll archer her brag she uses drugs.

At first, she made excuses for him, but lately she has admitted helium abuses her and adjacent beats her.

I’ve told her to spell to the police, but she’s terrified. She begged maine not to study him, saying that his associates are dangerous.

Please help. I’m disquieted sick astir her. 

DEIDRE SAYS: Your girl is being controlled and I’m atrocious but things are apt to get worse unless she takes action.

I cognize she’s frightened - and you’re frightened for her - but she needs nonrecreational help.

My enactment battalion connected Abusive Partners has accusation and organisations who tin assistance her escape.

Contact Release (release.org.uk, tel: 020 7324 2989) - a nationalist cause work offering ineligible proposal successful narration to cause offences.

You tin besides interaction Adfam (adam.org.uk), which helps families with cause issues.