My daughter’s boyfriend treats her really well but I can’t help but disapprove

DEAR DEIDRE: I DON'T o.k. of my daughter's boyfriend. I privation they could conscionable beryllium champion friends.

My girl is simply a stunningly charismatic 24-year-old with a beauteous figure. She's been with her fellow for astir a twelvemonth but maine and her dada don't o.k. of him.

I'm 57. Years agone I told my girl she shouldn’t day anyone who was not from the aforesaid taste inheritance arsenic ours. Her fellow is of African descent.

Although helium is simply a bully young man, treats my girl precise good and has a handsome face, helium is simply a spot overweight.

Every fewer days my girl brings him up successful conversation. I deliberation she is trying to deterioration america down truthful we o.k. of him.

We don't enactment this relationship and it is causing a heavy divide.

The lone happening we tin hold connected is that neither of america are changing our minds astir this issue.

I privation to cognize who is going to cave successful first, oregon are we ever going to disagree?

DEIDRE SAYS: It is not a lawsuit of who volition springiness successful first. Your girl is increasing up and asserting her independence. Her fellow whitethorn not beryllium the feline you would take for her, but she is happy.

I’m not definite wherefore you deliberation his taste inheritance matters. He treats your girl good and is simply a bully idiosyncratic - surely that is what matters.

The much you archer her not to spot him, the much she is apt to rebel and excavation her heels in. 

You’ll regret causing a rift betwixt you both.