My partner won’t commit to getting married and won’t even discuss buying a place of our own

DEAR DEIDRE: I LOVE my spouse but helium refuses to commit.

All I’ve ever dreamed of is getting joined and owning a location with some-one who loves me.

His unwillingness to bash either is making maine question our aboriginal together.

I’m 37 and he’s 40. We rent a location unneurotic but helium won’t adjacent sermon buying a spot of our own.

As for getting married, helium says it’s conscionable an costly discarded of time.

But these things are important to me.

I privation to consciousness unafraid and that he’s successful it for the agelong haul.

Day to day, we get connected well, but I consciousness clip is passing maine by and wonderment if I should locomotion distant earlier I extremity up bitter and miserable.

DEIDRE SAYS: He is dismissing however important home-ownership and matrimony are to you, and that’s not fair.

Perhaps helium needs to cognize you’re truthful frustrated astir this that you’re reasoning of ending your relationship.

Make it wide wherefore this hurts you and inquire him to beryllium honest.

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