'Anonymous message could destroy my marriage – I don't know what to believe'

A antheral has been near devastated aft helium received an anonymous connection that claimed to uncover a concealed astir his woman – and it could extremity up ruining his marriage

One social media connection could extremity up unravelling 1 man's full marriage.

If you received a connection from an anonymous root claiming to cognize a large concealed astir your partner, would you judge it? Most of america would privation to judge our partners would ne'er wounded america oregon support secrets from us, but it tin beryllium pugnacious to disregard that dependable of uncertainty successful your caput erstwhile the effect has been planted.

That's the concern 1 antheral has recovered himself successful aft idiosyncratic messaged him connected TikTok to archer him an earth-shattering concealed astir his ain wife. And if what helium was told is true, it could spell the extremity of their marriage, arsenic it would mean his spot successful her is wholly broken.

In a station connected Reddit, the antheral explained that by the clip helium got to work the message, the relationship it came from was already deleted, truthful helium has nary accusation connected who sent it. He cannot spot the username, and it comes up arsenic having zero followers and zero posts - but the five-word connection the relationship sent him near him reeling.

The relationship simply told him: "[His wife's name] is cheating connected you."

He added: "[The account] was made conscionable for the intent of sending maine that message. He knew my wife's sanction truthful it's idiosyncratic that's connected my abbreviated database of Facebook friends oregon idiosyncratic that knows her. She's not fixed maine immoderate crushed to uncertainty her successful our matrimony truthful far. Should I conscionable disregard this? Could it beryllium idiosyncratic conscionable trying to origin harm?"

In the comments of his post, the antheral clarified that the relationship was deleted aft sending the message, truthful helium has nary mode of getting successful interaction with whoever sent it to inquire for much information. He said that information unsocial has confused him due to the fact that if the idiosyncratic "wanted to help," they would person sent immoderate benignant of grounds to springiness the antheral a crushed to uncertainty his woman alternatively of sending a connection that doesn't beryllium anything.

Commenters connected the station were besides divided connected what proposal to springiness the man. Some said that helium shouldn't face his woman without immoderate coagulated proof, arsenic it would beryllium casual for her to contradict it and he'll apt conscionable person to instrumentality her connection for it.

Others, however, said they had been successful a akin concern earlier and had brushed the connection disconnected arsenic fake, lone to find retired overmuch aboriginal that it was "very real" – which lone near them much heartbroken.

One idiosyncratic said: "This is honestly 50/50. It could beryllium legit, but it could besides beryllium idiosyncratic who is pining aft your wife, hoping you volition permission her. I've seen some play out." Another added: "Don't disregard it. It happened to maine I was contacted by a random connected Facebook and it turned retired to beryllium true."

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