I left my fiance seconds into our wedding, I was ready for happily ever after, but it ended with 5 words at 6am

A MUM has revealed she jilted her fiance connected their wedding time contempt being 'terrified' everyone would hatred her - but it was the 'best decision' she's ever made.

Alexis Saya was owed to wed her ex-partner connected 16 April 2023 successful Huntington, Indiana, but made the 'hard' prime to permission connected the greeting of their large day.

The mates archetypal met successful precocious schoolhouse and stock a four-year-old kid together, but had been connected and disconnected for years yet Alexis inactive remained successful the narration contempt knowing she 'wasn't happy'.

Despite being faced with nary occupation and being a azygous mum, the 23-year-old woke up connected her wedding and conscionable 'knew she had to' cancel the $40,000 (£32,000) celebrations her mum had forked retired for.

She describes however she turned to her spouse portion inactive successful furniture connected the greeting of the wedding and said 'we can't get joined today' - earlier leaving him that day.

Taking to TikTok, the pupil caregiver shared a photograph from her wedding time compared to now, which has since gone viral with 144,100 views.

One photograph shows Alexis looking tear-stricken astatine the camera captioned 'the time I near my fiance connected our wedding day'.

The adjacent photograph shows her beaming astatine the camera captioned 'it's present been 16 months'.

Many users took to the comments to praise the mum for her 'brave' determination portion different users questioned, 'why the wedding day?'

The mum wants to promote others to permission a narration if they are 'questioning' whether they should and she present 'cannot hold to get joined 1 day' to the close person.

Alexis who lives successful Fort Wayne, Indiana, said: "I don't deliberation that I've genuinely ever done thing harder. I felt similar it was a determination I had conscionable made but astir I didn't person a accidental successful it. I didn't person power implicit it.

"It was astir 6am. I said 'I'm sorry, we can't get joined today'. He benignant of looked astatine maine and went backmost to sleep.

"I went into different country and called my mum. My sister was connected the telephone with different household telling them that I wasn't going to spell done with it.

"I wanted him to spell drawback our girl truthful that I could permission due to the fact that I didn't truly privation to beryllium determination erstwhile everyone woke up and realised that I wasn't going to get married.

"I woke him up again and said 'I request you to spell get her'. He was ace confused and I said 'we're not getting joined today'.

"He looked astatine maine and was similar 'what are you talking about'. And I said 'do you truly deliberation this is simply a marriage'. He went and got her and I left.

"I didn't privation to but I knew that I had to. I cried that full day. It was awful. I took it harder than him. You're giving up everything you've known.

"I was a stay-at-home mum astatine the clip truthful I had nothing. I didn't person a job, I didn't person wealth of my own. Everything was his."

The mum-of-one went and took girl Avielle consecutive to her mum's location earlier moving backmost into her aged apartment.

While she got into a 'bad spot aft the wedding' she present believes it was the 'best decision' she's ever made.

Alexis said: "Right aft I had wished that I'd gone done with it. I retrieve thinking, it was astir 3pm, 'I'd already beryllium joined now'. I got into a truly atrocious palace aft the wedding.

"I conscionable couldn't judge that I'd really made the decision. I regretted it truthful severely for astir apt a while. Then it came to a constituent that I was truly blessed that I did it.

"I knew that I wasn't blessed successful the narration and I knew that. I conscionable ever tried to marque myself judge that I was due to the fact that I loved him.

"It's thing that I'll ever person with maine and it's a trauma that I deliberation I'll ever transportation but I've recovered a mode to header and woody with it better. But I deliberation it was perfectly the champion determination for maine and my daughter.

"[My daughter] was astir apt the biggest crushed I left. It came to a constituent wherever if I couldn't bash it for her, past it conscionable isn't fair. This is her lone puerility and I'm successful complaint of it. That's the champion determination I've ever made adjacent if it's hard to accept.

"Everytime I spot him it's a reminder of wherefore I left. I ever wonderment sometimes erstwhile it's precocious astatine nighttime and I'm successful furniture and I'm lonely and I'm conscionable similar 'oh I privation I conscionable had my household back'.

"I deliberation of lone the bully times and past I spot him again and it conscionable reminds maine each implicit again each of the atrocious that outweighs each of the good. And that's wherefore I left."

The mates archetypal met erstwhile they were conscionable 16 years aged and got engaged successful 2020 aft having their archetypal kid together.

She revealed the brace were connected and disconnected betwixt 2019 and 2023 and things changed erstwhile they started readying the wedding but she volition ever beryllium 'thankful' for their daughter.

Alexis said: "The narration wasn't a bully relationship. We were young, we were stupid.

"We purposely had a babe young, which I would ne'er regret. He gave maine the champion happening ever successful my life. I'm everlastingly thankful to him for that.

"After my girl was calved we had breached up a fewer times and got backmost unneurotic a fewer times. I deliberation I had successful full 3 oregon 4 rings due to the fact that of however galore times we'd breached up.

"We'd yet successful 2022 started readying the wedding. It was going to beryllium a beauteous wedding. I was precise excited. I deliberation things benignant of shifted for me."

The genitor admitted she ne'er planned to extremity the narration connected her wedding time and feared the 'terrifying' determination would marque everyone 'hate' her.

Alexis said: "When you bash marque decisions similar that you deliberation everyone's going to hatred you. That's however I felt. I thought I was going to suffer my mum due to the fact that she paid for the wedding. I was terrified.

"I consciousness similar radical deliberation conscionable due to the fact that I accidental I near connected my wedding time 'she indispensable conscionable not attraction oregon beryllium capable to bash whatever'. It was terrifying, truly. It was precise hard.

"Even my ain household said 'well wherefore did you wait'. I genuinely went to furniture that nighttime reasoning I was going to aftermath up and get married. You besides lone spot a snippet of the situation. I deliberation it's each situational.

"I would ne'er person chosen it to beryllium that day. I ne'er did thing maliciously towards him. I ne'er wanted to wounded him.

"We had talked connected the telephone that time aft I left. Maybe 4pm. I was conscionable crying 'I didn't privation to bash this to wounded you. I conscionable couldn't bash it'."

The mum encourages others to permission a narration if they are having doubts and 'cannot wait' to hopefully getting joined successful the future.

Alexis said: "I would archer anybody that if you adjacent person a question of if you should permission past you should. And you mightiness spell backmost but you mightiness not and it mightiness beryllium the champion determination you ever make.

"It is the hardest happening to bash to leave. I inactive can't judge I did it.

"There's inactive times it's hard but I person to punctual myself I volition find idiosyncratic that loves maine and my daughter. I cannot hold to get joined 1 day. I can't hold to person much kids."

Many users praised Alexis successful the comments.

One idiosyncratic said: "You are truthful brave. So immoderate radical wouldn't bash this adjacent if they felt it."

Another idiosyncratic said: "Congrats connected putting yourself first."

A 3rd idiosyncratic said: "That indispensable person been truthful hard."

Other users criticised Alexis for waiting until the wedding day.

One idiosyncratic said: "Why the wedding day?"

Another idiosyncratic said: "Why bash radical ever hold for the wedding day. That's truthful scary."