In the run-up to Valentine's Day, anyone wishing to day the 'world's astir cleanable woman' indispensable adhere to her strict requirements.
Janaína Prazeres has immoderate non-negotiables erstwhile it comes to her dating life, and makes definite the men she gives her clip to tick each of her boxes - and determination are rather a few. To commencement with, the 25-year-old outright refuses to beryllium courted by idiosyncratic who inactive lives with their parents and calls them "children who debar big responsibilities".
She besides said immoderate antheral who hopes to day her should fork retired £4,000 a period for her "beauty fee" arsenic she said women already walk capable currency to look bully for men truthful it's their crook to pay.
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Jam Press/@janaina3/CO Press Office)While she is inactive single, the exemplary said she's mislaid excessively overmuch clip and wealth dating the incorrect men, truthful present makes definite whoever she spends her clip with is up to her precocious standards. "I person precise wide rules that, for me, are cardinal erstwhile evaluating a imaginable partner. A antheral who inactive lives with his mum is improbable to person the autonomy needed for a superior relationship. I person [been connected dates with men who unrecorded with their mums] and astir of the time, it was adjacent worse than I imagined."
Janaína said men who can't beryllium autarkic capable to permission their parents location "probably lacks the affectional maturity for a superior relationship" and said it's hard to physique thing with idiosyncratic who stays successful their comfortableness zone. "I'm not present to rise oregon thatch anyone, I'm looking for a partner, not a child," she said.
When it comes to her quality maintenance, Janaína said she wants a antheral to screen her aesthetic procedures, haircare, and regular maintenance, wage for her idiosyncratic trainer and marque "other investments" successful her appearance. Her reasoning for this is due to the fact that "men contiguous privation women successful the old-fashioned benignant – ever impeccable, well-groomed, feminine" but added: "They hide that, successful the past, men besides played a antithetic role. If they privation a classical woman, they request to beryllium consenting to enactment similar classical men."
She said it requires concern and committedness and has mislaid a batch of clip and wealth investing successful failed relationships. "I've mislaid a batch of clip and wealth investing successful relationships that didn't enactment out.
"I spent years taking attraction of myself, keeping up my appearance, spending connected aesthetics, clothes, the gym… and successful the end, I was near astatine a loss. I adjacent considered suing immoderate ex-boyfriends for the wealth I wasted trying to enactment cleanable for them. Women already walk truthful overmuch connected self-care to look good."
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Jam Press/@janaina3/CO Press Office)Janaína revealed she's besides cautious astir men who usage dating apps "too much" arsenic good arsenic those who "lack politeness and walk excessively overmuch clip connected grooming." The exemplary has been dubbed 'The Perfect Woman' by Playboy Norway successful the past, and she expects to beryllium treated successful accordance with her title. She said: "I don't spell retired with guys who look to beryllium determination conscionable to rack up arsenic galore matches [on dating apps] arsenic possible.
"I tin spot that close away, and I don't privation to discarded my clip connected idiosyncratic who isn't authentic. I similar men who dainty maine with attraction and respect. Opening the car door, for example, is simply a motion of politeness that shows however overmuch helium values the infinitesimal and my company." She besides said she likes men with a "natural, robust benignant – a beard, a modern touch, but nary exaggeration."
While she is criticized for not being a feminist, she doesn't deliberation determination is thing incorrect with her strict requirements. She said: "Feminism advocates state of choice, and this is mine. I take to worth myself and lone prosecute with idiosyncratic who understands what that means.
"For me, a narration indispensable beryllium beneficial for some sides, and that equilibrium is essential," she said, adding that her rules prevention her clip and assistance her to debar disappointment arsenic she present knows what she doesn't privation successful a partner.
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