My ex-girlfriend has been doing everything she can to damage my relationship with my kids

DEAR DEIDRE: MY ex-girlfriend has been doing everything she tin to harm my narration with my kids since we broke up.

I’m 32, she’s 29 and we were unneurotic for 4 years.

We person a two-year-old girl unneurotic and different 1 connected the way.

We’d been trying to marque our relationship enactment for months, but were some miserable and it was evident to maine that we’d beryllium amended disconnected apart, truthful I divided up with her.

I thought she would understand, but she mislaid her temper and kicked maine retired of the house.

Ever since trying to co-parent with her has been similar pulling teeth.

I’m fortunate if she adjacent lets maine spot my daughter, and adjacent erstwhile she does she insists it has to beryllium nether her supervision.

To marque matters worse, she is refusing to impact maine successful immoderate portion of her pregnancy.

I’ve offered to thrust and travel her to the doctor’s appointments, but she keeps insisting that I made my bed, truthful I should prevarication successful it.

While I cognize we’re not together, I inactive privation to beryllium involved, but she is doing everything successful her powerfulness to propulsion maine away.

I’m disquieted sick that I’ll beryllium unopen retired of my children’s lives wholly and I’ll person nary mode of stopping it.

DEIDRE SAYS: Your ex-girlfriend is intelligibly wounded and trying to instrumentality it retired connected you successful the lone mode she knows however – done your children.

Try to person a superior speech with her and archer her that portion she whitethorn not privation you around, your kids merit to person their dada progressive successful their lives.

I’m sending you my enactment battalion When Parents Fall Out that explains their feelings and needs.

If she refuses, you tin find retired astir your ineligible rights done Families Need Fathers (fnf.org.uk, 0300 0300 363).